Date: 2/8/2004 9:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 35720
Lia, there was a point where I could completely relate to this poem.. but hang in there.. because you know things got better for me and they can get better for you too.. *hugs* It will be OK and things will work out! You know they will! Hang in there! I love you girl.. your friend, Arika.  |
Date: 2/8/2004 9:51:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 46486
Thanks Arika. *hugs*  |
Date: 2/8/2004 10:03:00 AM
From Authorid: 1799
Lia...  *hugs*  |
Date: 2/8/2004 10:07:00 AM
From Authorid: 56293
Lia! *hugs* I know things are rough .. But please know, things WILL get better. You can't give up .. this is just a bump in road .. And know that your friends are here to help you!! You ever need someone to talk to, or vent too .. I'm here. You know how to reach me. *hugs*  |
Date: 2/8/2004 1:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 44404
Alexie Sherman said it best when he wrote, "this is a poem for all those who jumped off the golden gate bridge/ this is a poem for all those who jumped off the golden gate bridge and changed their minds halfway down/ this is a poem for all who have jumped off the golden gate bridge because all have changed their minds halfway down./ I do not believe that anyone wants to kill themselves for longer than the two seconds it takes to do it." I paraphrase of course. My brother killed himself. I was a year older. That was 8 years ago. There is not a day I don't think on him. And how I looked up to him. He didn't know that. Or he ignored it. No matter. Same ending. Just think about it is all I'm saying.  |
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Date: 2/8/2004 1:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 44404
"And they said, 'Marion killed herself.' And I said, 'Not a chance. Not a chance." -Tori Amos |
Date: 2/8/2004 1:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 10798
My dear...I promise you will love again, and you'll think this person is the biggest jerk who ever lived and wonder why you ever cared for him. You just hang in there and don't you act out the words of this poem. I hope and pray you were only working through your pain. It does help to write..but suicide is never he answer.  |
Date: 2/8/2004 5:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 53541
deep thoughts fill your mind...if only that one person could have been kind...
sorry the world had to be so rough...the love just wasent enough...so think about it and walk a mile...cheer up and smile.  |
Date: 2/8/2004 5:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 50864
Hold tight Lia NO ONE is ever worth taking your life. No matter what Hold tight fight you will come through stronger and better then ever  |
Date: 2/8/2004 6:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 50193
You are too good of a person to be put through anything like this, Lia. He doesn't deserve a person like you.  |
Date: 2/8/2004 6:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 2734
Oh the pain...you feel like it will never go away. And there is nothing more on the planet that you wish for than to get rid of it now. I know that this may sound trivial but no pain, no gain. It is a crappy quote used by body builders but I think it would be helpful for you to use it as a mind builder. Someday, you will get over the pain and wonder why the heck you liked the person in the first place, but you will have learned from the situation. Eventually, you will find someone (or many) that will deserve you.  |
Date: 2/9/2004 6:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 14412
Lia, no matter what you might be thinking now, suicide is not an out. For the pain you might release goes onto others. Look to your friends to help you. I, myself, was at this point not to long ago, and a great friend strolled into my life and helped me see that there are more caring people in this world. Your friends are the best cure for many things, they will listen and not judge, they will look upon you and help you walk through the pain, and they will try to bring that smile back to you. For no matter the pain you feel now, it will subside and start to go away. You have taken the first step of releasing it into your words, now let your friends help you walk through it to help your heart heal. Your mind may tell you that no one is there for you, but down deep, buried under the emotions of anger and mistrust, you will find the trust you have in your friends.  |
