Date: 1/31/2004 5:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 51521
I woulda dumped hima long time ago... lol, but thats just me...  |
Date: 1/31/2004 5:51:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
lol Most ppl say I shoulda. But others are like well u no, he's having some fam problems, just let em blow over and it'll be ok.  |
Date: 1/31/2004 6:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 26049
Sis, wow...the first paragraph sounds like something I went through. Crazy. Actually a lot of ur situation I can relate to. Well, it all depends on how much more you can take. If he's having family problems, he needs to not take them out on you and at least say SOMETHING to you. Geeze, I know how you must feel! You could try talking to him, waiting it out...and if none of that works, least you can say YOU tried. Maybe he's just not ready for a real relationship right now..who knows. Feel free to msg me if you need to talk. Good luck. *hugs*  |
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Date: 1/31/2004 6:20:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
Thanx so much sis!! *huggs* I can't take it anymore. Im thinking about breaking up with him for 2 differnet reasons. 1>I've been in love with Chris the whole time and thought I could stop loving him, but never did. And 2> He'e being all of the above. UGGGGGGGGGG Thanx again sis! *huggs* |
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Date: 1/31/2004 6:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 26049
well, then if Chris moves to ur town and doesn't have a g-f, then go for it. You deserve to be happy. *hugs* You are welcome. |
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Date: 1/31/2004 6:50:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
*huggs* I really want to be happy. |
Date: 1/31/2004 6:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 55297
i'd ttalk to him about it. i would ask, "is something wrong? you seem to be ignoring me and that hhurts..." and go from there. but hey- thats me.  |
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Date: 1/31/2004 6:58:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
Thanx heavenly. I just wrote him a huge long e-mail about how I feel. And all that good stuff...hehe |
Date: 1/31/2004 7:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 34865
At first i was going to say to dump him, hes not treating you right, but then after i read it more i got to thinking that maybe your not treating him right. I dont want to intrude, but if he is having some problems at home, ask him whats wrong and how you can help. Also if you never fully liked him from teh beginning, you are just using him to hold you over until you can get that other boy. Dont play with him, and stop worring about yourself and see what is really wrong with him before you do decide to dump him. And if you dont like him, dont give him any false immpressions.  |
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Date: 1/31/2004 7:15:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
I do like him tho. A lot. I have for a long time. I've been single for over a year, and I've kown Chris for over a year and I dont need a guy to make me happy. I was happy being single. I've asked him what's wrong, but he always says I dont know or nothing, im fine. I'm not using him or holding him or watever you want to call it. I like him a LOT and have NEVER even thought about using him or "holding him" till I could get another guy. I dont need that and I will NEVER do that. |
Date: 1/31/2004 8:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 54060
Just go with what ur heart tells you to do..or do what u think is best for you ..Best of luck *hugs*  |
Date: 1/31/2004 9:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 51587
Hey I say try to talk to him..but it that dont work out and he doesnt want to share....i say dump him, since he doesnt know what he gots....you know. Hope you figure out what you want to do soon *huggs*  |
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Date: 1/31/2004 9:19:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
*huggs thanx guys, i'll definetly do this.. |
Date: 1/31/2004 10:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 54441
don't make any rash decisions..thats how i feel...maybe he's really hurting inside and isn't showing it...if he IS having some problems and is not teling u about them trying to save u the hurt ...its cause he cares about u...i think you should really talk to him...and work this thing out..cause really its the stress thats keeping him down...it'll pass...always does....but u need to think about the great time u have together...and how much you can share and more than that /...people need to work out differences not ignore them....i hope this helps...but do think befgore you make any decision *hugs*all the best to you  |
Date: 2/1/2004 2:03:00 AM
From Authorid: 11348
I think if you love someone else, you shouldn't be with this other guy anyway... especially since he's treating you badly. Just look at the situation as if it weren't you... ask yourself if you would be happier alone or with this guy despite how he's treating you, then also ask yourself if you'd be happier with this guy or the guy you really love. Nobody really can answer this for you.  |
Date: 2/1/2004 4:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 37449
Yeah, I agree with KK. If you LOVE someone else, you shouldn't be with this guy.  |
Date: 2/1/2004 6:28:00 AM
From Authorid: 62338
Well if you do love chris then tell jesse to go chase parked cars or something because he,s acting like a jerk,and if he is having family problems that is no excuse to act the way he,s doing to you.Besides what,s going to happen when chris moves there hmmmmmm.Good luck...Rawhide  |
Date: 2/1/2004 8:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 62184
Some things are too hard to talk about right away. Just give him his space and eventually he'll come around and probably talk to you about it. Don't pester him though, that makes things worse. It's his time to worry, and your's will come soon. As for this other guy, why would you go out with jesse if you have feelings for someone else? Boyfriends aren't everything, and you shouldn't string one along until the other is available. You need to choose who you want to be with.  |
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Date: 2/1/2004 8:54:00 AM
From Authorid: 62184
I'm not saying you don't know what you're talking about, but from what i read in your post.. it does seem like you just want a boyfriend and holding onto the one who you really don't want, just to wait for the other one to come around. And when you're with someone, don't tell someone else that you want to be with them. It's not right at all. |
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Date: 2/1/2004 3:52:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
Thanx everyone...im not saying I dont like Jesse at all. and im pulling hin behind me to make myself look good. Im NOT doing that at ALL...I like jesse a LOT and As for Chris and I, I dont think we'll ever get a chance together...HE HAS A GF. There is nothing I can do about them. I like jesse a LOT and im not holding on to him while I wait for Chris. I told Chris that Im gonna start dating other guys cause I cant wait for him forever and he was really cool about it all and understands that no, I can't wait for him. At this point, Chris and I are only friends. He has a gf and I have a gf. I am NOT and NEVER will have a bf just to make myself look good or to "pull along on a string" Im not that kinda person and I never will be. I love being with Jesse, but when he starts to act this way, its very frustrating. How would u feel if u were in my spot? |
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Date: 2/1/2004 3:53:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
I have a bf* |
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Date: 2/1/2004 3:55:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
I never said I dont want jesse. I do. I dont want to break up with him before we can talk, but if he doesnt talk what am I suppose to do? Tie him to a chair and force him to talk? No! I dont do that. |
