Date: 1/19/2004 7:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 15675
count yourself lucky you even have 3 friends, even if their not in your classes. Middle School I had false friends who would use me and spread rumors about me, and when high school hit I was dead alone, NO friends what so ever. Just enjoy the fact that you actually have some you can trust, because I would be a junior now (I dropped out) and I STILL have no one, I'm tryin to meet people now but its excrutiatingly hard...  |
Date: 1/19/2004 8:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 9130
Just start counting the days til graduation... Seriously though, at least you aren't totally alone. Could you join some school activities and get more involved with things?  |
Date: 1/19/2004 8:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 14464
I don't know what you are talking about not being able to make new friends in high school because I did. I had a very small group of friends and i think it is so much better then having a ton of friends you dont' know or trust. And I went through that stage of not thinking anyone would care if i died, but think about it there are people out there who would care. And since your friends aren't in your calsses make friends in the calsses you have. Thats what I did and I had people to talk to and it was cool. I didn't talk to them anywhere but the class usually but who cares you know because you will know a lot of people and you will feel like you hang out with a big crowd of people. And also you don't even have to be popular to make new friends either cuz I sure wasn't popular and i made new friends.  |
Date: 1/19/2004 8:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 60992
Having a big group ain't everything.. I mean you can always make new friends. I wish I were at ur school then, cuz at our school it can always change. I mean me and my best friend of 6 years can't even.. Well we just ain't friends no more but were in the begining but a one of our friends died and all of it changed but I did find new friends. But what helped me alot is that I'm friendly with everyone know everyone I call them sexy and stuff..lol.. I'm nuts.. But shy.. It helps to know everyone and get along with all. I know it's hard and yeah I do feel like I duno who I am but you eventually start learning more about everybody else ur friends and yourself. And just becuase you have 3 friends u can trust is normal, ppl could have a huge group dun mean that they all trust y'all of eahc other... You can have many many "friends" and aquintances but not many truely trusted friends.
-des  |
Date: 1/19/2004 9:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 29775
be glad that you have 3 friends. I am older and I have NO friends what so ever. I sitt at home everyday and leave the house just to go to the doctors or my counsoler. My day consists of getting up taking anti-depressants and laying on the couch all day bored to death till it is time to take another pill. I wish I had friends to talk to or do something with. I would be happy with one friend right now.  |
Date: 1/20/2004 2:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 62146
I can relat to this post alot. So yeah I understand where your comneing from. Yeah it sux but with me I had no frinds and mu whole class ganging up on me and trying to convince me I was just nothing I almost killed myself accatully (no thanks to them but yeah anyway moveing on). Yeah I use to cry alot cause Of all this. Trust me I am probbly saying this cause I am sue to haveing not so many friends and being in small groups and haveing about 2 closse frinds but. You don't have to have alot of friends to prove that your a good person. How many friend dose not mean how good a person you are. Just cause your not popular dose not mean your a bad person cause some people who are poular are accatuly quite nasty. I use to get told that people who are un popular are accatully like that cause they are not a good person to be around. Like only popular people are good people thats why you get given the name it is not true don't belive it. Cause ok I know what it is like to have no friends and to be a loner and trust me it is not good you do think maybe I am a like this cause no one wants to be my friend considering the fact I am just worthless. It ant true cause although your not perfect consider the fact that no one is perfect. And you have your good sides aswell. If you really feel that bad so a consouler at school or out of school cause fi your crying alot this means depression. Hope things work out if you feel alful rember you ahv e some good friend to turn and you can MSG me if you need to talk.  |
Date: 1/20/2004 6:59:00 AM
From Authorid: 42259
I had this same problem in high school.I was friendly with different groups but I had like 3 main friends and they were all in different classes, so when I was in class I felt like a loser.Don't worry about it. people will see at lunch with your friends and realize that you do have friends.And a couple of really GOOD friends is worth way,way more than being popular.  |
Date: 1/23/2004 2:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 52489
I was a loner, who couldn't connect with the right crowd, so I started acting out. I found other loners, and we created our own clique: the Hell-Raisers! We did the unexpected stuff: tossed Alka-Seltzers in the punch at the dances, went cruisin in a hearse, etc. We earned our popularity. You can too! Remember: if you want to be remembered, defy convention!  |
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Date: 1/23/2004 3:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 62472
be a loner with friends! i am a loner myself, i am in 8th grade. i have a lot of friends, several close friends, but i atually PREFER to be alone. it doesnt seem to be the case with u tho. MY ADVICE TO YOU: hunnie you need to put your head up high! its NEVER to late to make friends! talk to people, put yourself out there. you need to be confident and you will go far. i know how you feel, before middle school i had tons of friends, then last year i had like NONE. it was so sad. this year i was fed up. i made myself a better person. im not too confident but i dont let myself hold back on socialization anymore. u gotta help urself. lay down and plan out something in your head. think of how u wanna be, and be it! u can do it, i know it. -kay babe |
