Date: 1/19/2004 7:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 12133
If its a good bar, she will be well protected. Now, a bad one....  |
Date: 1/19/2004 7:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
if your that concerned...why not go down to the club and watch for a bit?....Not that I would want to do this..or have any future daughters doing this either...but at some point you just can't tell them no anymore...good luck  |
Date: 1/19/2004 7:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 50678
It is just like belly dancing, I think it would be a fun experience and I don't think there is any danger in taking classes. That is what I think.  |
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Date: 1/19/2004 7:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 50678
I do agree with Becky |
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Date: 1/19/2004 7:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 50678
Good money, I wish I had that much money, lol |
Date: 1/19/2004 7:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 58334
Personally I find nothing wrong w/ it. It's dancing. And yes, in limited clothing, lol. But then again you can go to the beach is less and still get goggled at. I say if she wants to do it, let her. If you say no you'll only push her away.  |
Date: 1/19/2004 7:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 62100
I think that its okay if its done in a classy way that doesn't go against your daughters beliefs or morals. As long as she will be protected and doesn't feel any weirdness or unsafe or that it makes her a bad person, why not?? It's just a job..  |
Date: 1/19/2004 7:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 16671
like crash said, if its a good gentlemens club she will be protected. In some places the money is held for them, but I've never seen that happen, usually the girls get the money handed to them. My daughter has did this and the club she worked was very safe. The guys are NOT allowed to touch/manhandle the girls. She made as much as almost eight hundred in one night. And Usually, at least she had the guard walk her to her car after work. So Its not any more unsafe then any other job. It wasnt my line of chosen work for my daughter either but when they are of age to do what they want to, not too much you can do.  |
Date: 1/19/2004 7:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
If it's a good safe club, she should be fine!  |
Date: 1/19/2004 7:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 19092
Heck, for 800 bucks a night I'll put on the suit and dance....  |
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Date: 1/19/2004 7:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
800 a night? Dang I'm with KC...maybe I should do that. LOL |
Date: 1/19/2004 7:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
Wahoooooooooo King!  |
Date: 1/19/2004 7:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 177
I have no problem with it...but then again I'm neither a mother nor a parent. In these days where young girls idolize Brittney Speares, Christina Aguilera & others, who waggle their booty all over the place...well, I'm sure I personaly do not mind.  |
Date: 1/19/2004 8:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 19460
well i know a few girls who do total nude dancing. they ARE very protected and make good money at what they do. they love the money and the atmosphere. most of the men that come into the clubs my friends work at are very nice men and wouldnt harm these girls. the only part i didnt agree with, is that the strippers have to pay the club and d.j.! they get a big cut taken out of their money. i dont think there is anything wrong with dancing.  |
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Date: 1/19/2004 8:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 16671
Yep becky on a good night eight hundred bucks. She never came home with less than two hundred a night. |
Date: 1/19/2004 9:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 21435
Hello, ReginaBean I'll echo some of the others^^^^^ and say to you: "Check it out for yourself." These things must be handled with a good amount of tact, or, as some mentioned above, you'll only push her away. Best of luck to you both. Write on...  |
Date: 1/19/2004 10:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 4887
I have to agree with everyone else here, you should take a trip to the place and check it out. If it's a good place then she will be protected. The money is good too, and if it's only temporary then there's no harm. But you should check the place out Good LUck.  |
Date: 1/20/2004 2:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 25390
I'm with the majority here. As long as it's a good clean club, she will be protected. My aunt did exotic dancing to pay her way through college. I know that's not what you want for her, but if she is set on doing it, make sure the place she goes to will keep her protected.  |
Date: 1/20/2004 7:59:00 AM
From Authorid: 32133
if my daughter wanted to do that i personaly would tell her no but that would be if she was like 17 or 16.....she is a leagle adult so she pretty much can do it if she wants.....i would go there and check it out if i wear you you though because you never no as much as you hate to think about it she could be lying to you.  |
Date: 1/20/2004 2:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 62367
I'd be really wary about this. Your daughter is old enough to make this decision and take the conscequences, good or bad. Good luck.  |
Date: 1/20/2004 5:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 4144
i got one of those! the 19 year old daughter. don't they drive you nuts? i can imagine how you feel. i personally think you should go to the bar and see what goes on and how the place is run. just don't tell anybody when you are going if you know what i mean! i don't see that exotic dancing is a big deal. i don't see that stripping is a big deal. i think it's a personal decision a woman of any age over 18 has the right to make for herself. i'm not saying i want my kid to do either but i feel like if she does it's her business. as long as it's safe, i don't see a problem.  |
Date: 1/21/2004 10:31:00 AM
From Authorid: 16164
its not being protected that is the main issue with this kind of job  |
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Date: 1/21/2004 10:33:00 AM
From Authorid: 16164
and besides 18 to 20 is too young, I had a girl who worked for me, and her teacher came in |
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