Date: 1/19/2004 2:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 62503
No you need to be protective of your friends. Its good.. even if they dont listen its good to warn them. See i have no problem with seniors dating sophmores as long as they respect what they want but it sounds like your friend is gonna think she wants to do things she probably really doesnt. much love, reklespedestrian  |
Date: 1/19/2004 2:59:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 32318
Thank you reklespedestrian! it is much apprieciated  |
Date: 1/19/2004 3:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 10344
First relationship since the 6th grade.....6th grade relationships?.....lol...really got a good laugh out of that.  |
Date: 1/19/2004 3:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 9059
Totally do what ever you can to make this girl be careful! even if you have to play the older sibling role! She ovbiously isn't going to see thing rationally b/c lets face it, none of us do when we like someone! just make sure she knows this things and is constantly reminded of who he really is!  |
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Date: 1/19/2004 3:21:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 32318
hahah... yeah 6th grade, what else is there to cll it? it might of been 7th.. lol |
Date: 1/19/2004 3:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 62100
If you feel this strongly that the guy is a dog, then definitely be her conscience and give her words of wisdom..however, you also have to be prepared for the fact that she may become resentful of what she may see of your "intrusion"..just be ready to stand firm in your belief that he isn't ready for this or that he isn't the right guy for her. She may do what she wants regardless, or she might just listen and thank you later.  |
Date: 1/19/2004 3:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 38601
ok, I have gone through this, like 5 times, with one of my friends, every time I was right, and this guy sounds like a total creep...he may be nice now but who knows what will happen...you need to make her listen to you.  |
Date: 1/19/2004 3:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 6558
I think you can tell her how you feel, but she is going to make her own decisions and you have to let her make her own mistakes. Things may go great with this guy, but if they go as you feel they will, as her friend, you need to not say "I told you so." But, you need to be there for her however you can.  |
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Date: 1/19/2004 3:31:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 32318
Thank you for all the advice. i really hope something good comes out of her and him in w/e form. |
Date: 1/19/2004 6:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 58427
Mary you know I love you and I never wanna let a guy come between us. I totally understand what you're saying, don't think that I don't. It's just I dunno, I can't get it through my head. In the end you probly will be right but I guess I'm just gonna have to learn the hard way. Thank you for being such a good friend and caring about me. I think I just need to find this out for myself instead of just going off of what everyone else is telling me (not just you). I don't wanna regret anything...whether it's because of something I did do or didn't do. So I guess I'm just trying to take advantage of things and learn from them. If this does end badly, then hopefully I'll learn from my mistakes and not have to go through this again. Just please trust me that I'll use good judgement and not do anything stupid. And thank you for warning me, cuz I know you only want whats best for me, and this way I can never blame you for not warning me about him. Thank you, I love you, and I hope you understand what I'm saying too!!   |
Date: 1/19/2004 6:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 8278
it sounds to me like you are just being a good friend. i wish i had some friends like you when i was in high school. all you can do is warn her and let her know how you feel and why you feel it. she will do what she is going to do anyway...but giving her advice will only help. she will keep that advice in her mind when she is with him and hopefully use good judgement.  |
Date: 1/20/2004 10:30:00 AM
From Authorid: 6915
Let her go and do what she will. If she gets screwed over than she has noone to blame but herself and you've warned her. She needs to learn for herself.  |
Date: 7/17/2004 6:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 52130
sorry tess, but i'm with ya mary (lol even if it is a bit late!!)  |
