Date: 1/12/2004 4:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 60395
if you have even 1% of doubt id say dont do it, because any doubt at all is a sign that you have a chance of regretting it later and having sex too soon is something you can never take back.  |
Date: 1/12/2004 4:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 57640
How old are you? Not that that makes a difference.. but it does sorta. Are you ready? If your not ready, don't be pressured into it. i would wait until you find the perfect guy and you are ready. Just tell him you arent ready.  |
Date: 1/12/2004 4:03:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 56297
Im 15 lol thnx for the advice guys *hugs*  |
Date: 1/12/2004 4:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
NOONE should make you feel like you have to do anything you are not ready for..and if you have to question it, you arent ready. You let him know in a nice way that you are not ready for sex and its concequences and if he truly cares for you he will understand and stop pressuring you and wait until the time is right for both of you.  |
Date: 1/12/2004 4:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 10245
If you can't be 110% sure, then don't.... it's not something you can take back.  |
Date: 1/12/2004 4:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 38601
It's YOUR decision...if you don't want to do it and it's against your beliefs then DON'T! He has no right to pressure you.  |
Date: 1/12/2004 4:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 32133
Your 15!!!!!im 13 but still i would no enough not to do anything. Dont do it!!! you will just ruin your life because if you get pregnant (my brothers friend did this) you usually have to give it up for adoption or get an abortion. well she gave it up for adoption and she got so depressed and wanted her baby back but she couldnt get it...she became a wreck because she did it with a huy who said "just once" it wont hurt either of us.so DONT DO IT!!!!  |
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Date: 1/12/2004 4:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 32133
how old is he.....is it one of those things were hes like 20 and your 15 then defidently dont do it. |
Date: 1/12/2004 4:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 58334
I've been down this road and let me tell you. Don't do it! You'll only regret it and plus, there are things that can happen that you'll have to live with. (think baby)  |
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Date: 1/12/2004 4:14:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 56297
32113 hes 16 lol :P |
Date: 1/12/2004 4:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 11097
Everyone has given you some really great advice, and I just wanted to add something  this is something that is special and should be between two people that love each other, don't be afraid that you will lose him because you didn't do something he wanted, if he is the right one for you he will respect that and cherish you and wait for you *  |
Date: 1/12/2004 4:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 56293
You're 15 years old? NO WAY!  |
Date: 1/12/2004 4:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
put religion aside, put hormones aside, do you care for this guy? do you love him? do you feel like he is "the one"? and most important ARE YOU READY? don't rush into anything... if you are confused then it isn't the right time to make such a move... it sounds like he is pressureing you and putting it into your mind and you have doubts... this isn't the kind of man you want to be with... no means no and he should respect it and drop it  |
Date: 1/12/2004 4:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 3648
3648 The fact you said you feel as tho you're stuck in the middle is reason enough not to have sex....basically you are not ready for it and it shows in your feelings stated here.....I say wait, you're young....and you have more growing up to do.....Love is a beautiful thing not to be wasted on some guy that only cares about what he can get.....and if this guy truly loves you and means it he will take the answer no and respect you for it....  |
Date: 1/12/2004 4:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 52337
I say don't do it! But if you decide to... make sure he wears a condom I think thats G-rated if not then just delete this. Get birth control. That away if the condom isn't a... strong enough you'll have back up!! LoL Just remember, you have to live with this for the rest of your life. You won't be giving ANYTHING special up to ur husband. He could have a STD or sumthing. You could get pregnant. DONT DO IT!!!! Luv Alws, Lizz  |
Date: 1/12/2004 5:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 38406
Don't do it you are to young. He is to young too. You will most likly regret it once you do it. Please think about this more before your final decision.  |
Date: 1/12/2004 5:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 40979
I wouldn't do it . If you need to ask questions then that means you have doubts . If you know it is a 'SIN' in your religion then why go against that ? Besides you're so young . How do you know for sure you love this guy ? I say wait . Plenty of more guys are in the sea . You have your WHOLE life to have sex .  |
Date: 1/12/2004 6:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 50678
I would say that you shouldn't, you posted this post because your not sure, so therefore you shouldn't. You have to be in love with the person and know that he loves you. You want your first to count and if something happens you want to know that the guy will stay with you. I would wait until you are married, that is what I'm doing. Your bf or whatever also has to understand, if he makes you he really doesn't love you, I found that out. Make sure you do it with someone that loves you.  |
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Date: 1/12/2004 6:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 50678
PS If something does happen, you don't want to destroy your future because of it, you really should wait until you are 100% sure and married. |
Date: 1/12/2004 7:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 62503
you should just follow what you think is right... at your age you really shouldnt do it. and dont let the whole "omg i like this guy so much and i want him to like me and not think I am dumb" thing make you feel like you have to do it... You have the right to say no... sex is a privelege he has to truely win it...  |
Date: 1/12/2004 7:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 29532
OMG honey, you are WAY too young to have sex!  |
Date: 1/12/2004 7:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
umm if your questioning it than maybe that in itself is an answer...  |
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Date: 1/12/2004 7:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
I mean like...your 15....could you handle a pregnancy? could you handle an STD...face it...odds are in 5 years this dude will not be in your life...you willing to give something so precious up to someone who won't be there in the end?..... |
Date: 1/12/2004 7:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 57232
wasn't going to reply, not going to say why, cough, cough. But if I could turn back time I wish that there was USM back then and the reply just above Becky Dews is the advice I wish I got then  |
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Date: 1/12/2004 7:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
wahoo! someone agrees with me! not bad for me being on a buzz! |
Date: 1/13/2004 2:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 51827
Its all up to you. If your having doubts and morally you do not feel right well then I say you should wait because you sound like your unsure if its the best thing to do.  |
Date: 1/13/2004 2:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 62367
Please don't do it. The fact that you are confused speaks for itself. Never let yourself be talked into anything against your better judgement. That is one sign of maturity. Your turn will come but not today.  |
Date: 1/14/2004 8:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 31048
Don't do it!!! You'll know when you're ready. You won't be confused. If you're not 100% sure about it, it's not the right time!  |
Date: 1/15/2004 7:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 54968
Don't do it! You'll regret it in the future. Wait for that special someone.  |
