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Date: 1/12/2004 3:30:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 60507
if this needs to be deleted im sorry  |
Date: 1/12/2004 3:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 38601
I think i'm pretty sure what you did, i've done it too...and I'm going to have to side with your friend. She did the right thing. I almost lost my boyfriend because of it. There's no excuse for it, you have to stop. *hugs*  |
Date: 1/12/2004 3:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
I suggest you sit down with your parents tonight and tell them yourself before they get that phone call from your Teacher honey. As much as you are angry with your friend right now, in time you will see that she did the right thing..Once or a million times..Once is too much. You need help and because of a friend that cares you will now get that help you need. Don't hate her..Understand that she did this because she CARES about you and doesnt want to see you hurting yourself any more.  |
Date: 1/12/2004 3:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 62408
Why don't you tell your parents yourself? I know it won't be easy, trust me...I've been down that road, but she's only worried about you. I've been in both situations. I've had to tell someone when I thought they were in danger, and I've had to go to my parents when I was getting out of control. (I'm in treatment for depression and anxiety). Granted, my case is totally different than yours. But you are right. I was considered a goody-two-shoes... still am by many rights. The stress can get to you. Trying to keep up a perfect school record, etc. Maybe a little counseling would help. Its a great way to blow off steam, and its confidential. They don't tell your parents anything (unless they feel you're a danger to yourself or others). So you can go on all you want about the stresses of school, home life, peer pressure, etc. And they do understand about issues like cutting, or self-harm, or whatever may happen, and know the difference between wanting to and actually going to, because you make 'contracts' with them. Feel free to write me if you want more info. Take care, and try and stay calm. Glad to hear that your dad is okay. My father hunts too, and I worry about him...so we started having him take out either a cell phone, or he goes in a group, or we use those two-way walkie talkies you can get at Wal-Mart, Best Buy, etc. They're a little expensive, but well worth the cost for the peace of mind they provide. Don't know if you have any of those, but maybe you could consider that. Hope that helps some. Take care. --Christine-3  |
Date: 1/12/2004 3:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 18527
So you are mad at your friend because she was worried about you and wanted to make sure you were ok? That is extremely selfish of you!  |
Date: 1/12/2004 4:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 60395
im so sorry you have to go through this, and unfortunatly i dont know what to say. except i hope that everything turns out for the better  |
Date: 1/12/2004 6:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 29262
Okay... You need to tell you parents. I know it's not easy but if you admit you need help maybe they won't switch your school. They may just send you to a psychologist. A psychologist will help you trust me. Most people say No, they are for crazy people but they are not. They help people find resolutions to their problems. It may help. Tell your friends she was just worried about you and you respect her for caring so much.  I hope everything turns out okay. If you don't mind PLEASe keep me updated I want to make sure everything goes okay  |
Date: 1/13/2004 5:53:00 AM
From Authorid: 62146
I don't know what to do but i hope things work out.  |
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