Date: 1/6/2004 4:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 37449
Sounds good to me!  |
Date: 1/6/2004 4:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 48689
I know it's hard...but actually, you should try and tell him that BEFORE he asks you out, so then you can prevent him from looking like an idiot. But if you do like him like a friend, tell him that, and tell him to wait and see and maybe someday you can evolve (but don't say that if you don't think that it ABOSOLUTLY can't happen). And when you tell him that you just want to be friends, mean it, and try to be his friend. It works out better that way.  GOod Luck  |
Date: 1/6/2004 5:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
i think you need to pull him aside sometime SOON and tell him the truth... tell him that you think he is a wonderfully sweet guy but you just are not attracted to him in a relationship sort of way,and because of this you have no romantic interst in him and most likely won't ever have a romantic interst in him... be as nice and kind to him about it and don't do it with his friends around him(this is a personal one on one thing... no one needs thier hearts crushed with thier friends around) the sooner you do this... the better... you don't want to leave him hanging  |
Date: 1/6/2004 5:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 55009
yeah as urban cowgirl said don't break it to him when he askes... that leads to several things being shot down then and with those words just make a guy feel worse, tell him you like being how you are now but do it slowly and easily but make sure he understands that at the momment and maybe never you arn't ready for a closer relationship. and for his sake if no one elses do it before he askes.  |
Date: 1/6/2004 5:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 55337
just give him a chance.  |
Date: 1/6/2004 5:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 28946
What's wrong with going out with him? Who knows, maybe love will grow and you might be one of the couoples that love lasts a lifetime.  |
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Date: 1/6/2004 5:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 28946
BTW, Happy Birthday! |
Date: 1/6/2004 10:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 51827
I mean, cant you give him a chance. Go out with him one time at least for him. It would be really hard on him if you pulled the your really sweet but....I mean, ususally if u go out with him, you dont have to give him a commitment right then and he will be very excited that you actually gave him a chance instead of judging him before. Giving him a chance and then deciding that there is no chemistry will hurt less than saying no, because obviously there is another reason you dont like him besides in a romantic way or at least he will think so.  |
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Date: 1/7/2004 12:17:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 62472
i dont like him like that and i know for a fact i never will, and i dont want to go out with him :-/ *sigh* thanks every1 |
Date: 1/7/2004 3:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 62483
HI!
I feel for ya! Tell him the truth in a nice way but don't make a big deal about it. Give him sign's that you don't like him like that, and he most likely won't ask you out. Maybe even just out of the blue say 'I'm happy were friends, I hope your someone who keeps in touch through out life'or talk to him about a new 'boyfriend' or guy your seeing, that always works too. Good Luck! |
