Date: 1/6/2004 8:48:00 AM
From Authorid: 58611
you will find happiness within yourself again, it just takes time and you also have to allow it to come in as well. Finding a special someone is always nice and makes life seem even sweeter, but you cannot truley be happy if you are not happy with yourself first and foremost. Otherwise you would be using the other person to make up for what you lack in yourself.  |
Date: 1/6/2004 10:09:00 AM
From Authorid: 1432
You'll find happiness within yourself  ..  |
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Date: 1/6/2004 10:09:00 AM
From Authorid: 54247
Find happiness? Absolutely. Losses or breakups happen to everyone. So, at 21, it is very difficult. But, I have to admit that I am 72 years of age and I do remember that I used to believe I had to choose one person over the other (particularly family members) - YOU CAN LOVE THEM ALL - JUST IN DIFFERENT WAYS. Even my four mothers (birth mother died, grandmother died, aunt cared for me for 4 years, stepmother) - loved them all, each in a special way and never had to choose one over the other. Am sure you will meet many special people over the years! RAT |
Date: 1/6/2004 12:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 24856
This is so close to a what my daughter and I have discussed. She is 20 years old searching for happiness. I have told her she can not depend on a boy friend, "things", family or friends to provide to her happiness....it must be found from within one's self. I firmly believe this...there is an old chinese proverb that says "How can you be happy with more, if you are not happy with what you already have." What that means is "self"  |
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Date: 1/6/2004 3:25:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 62509
that is a great quote / proverb otter |
Date: 1/6/2004 4:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 48689
You can find happiness in all three! First, before you can find happiness in God or a woman, you need to find happiness within yourself. It's really attractive when a guy glows instead of gloating. Second, (and this depends on your total individuality) I found that I am tons happier with myself when I'm happy in God. He's made a difference in me that I could have ever imagined. Third, you probably will find happiness in a girl, eventually. These things take time, so don't rush it. I know how it is, you just want everything to turn out right then, NOW, but that's not the way it works. So once you're happy with yourself, other things will begin to intertwine to create an improved, happier, version of you. Jen  |
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Date: 1/8/2004 11:55:00 AM
From Authorid: 62445
My happiness revolves around Jesus.It seems to me you don't value yourself unless you've got a gf or something. You're only 21 you've got your whole life ahead of you. I'm 26 1/2 this may seem very odd but I've never felt that I needed a bf to make me feel happy; so I never dated or hooked up with anyone.Besides most people who live here on earth are just plain evil; can't trust anyone but God aka Jesus. |
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Date: 1/8/2004 11:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 62445
Until you have self love you will never find the right person. |
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Date: 1/8/2004 11:58:00 AM
From Authorid: 62445
My happiness revolves around Jesus.It seems to me you don't value yourself unless you've got a gf or something. You're only 21 you've got your whole life ahead of you. I'm 26 1/2 this may seem very odd but I've never felt that I needed a bf to make me feel happy; so I never dated or hooked up with anyone.Besides most people who live here on earth are just plain evil; can't trust anyone but God aka Jesus. |
Date: 2/24/2004 7:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 56176
i hope you find happiness,i love someone who is no longer in my life,and hasnt ben in my life for years im haunted every second that i breath,we had a wonderful realationship,but we broke it off not by choice's of our hearts;i wish you the best;  |
Date: 8/12/2004 4:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 42568
I think having your own goals in life helps you become your own person, and makes you not "need" another to feel happy. You don't need God and you don't need a woman. Yes, it is possible. But, that is just my opinion...  |
