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I have to do it? Then I dont want to!!! ........................ ~Moonpriestess~

  Author:  16442  Category:(Discussion) Created:(1/6/2004 8:22:00 AM)
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I have noticed a serious fault in myself.... if I have to do it, I don't want to.

I swear it can be something that I KNOW I will enjoy but if there is any indication that I HAVE to do it, I will fight tooth and nail not to do it, even though once it is done, I am like "why did I waste so much time fighting this".

So do any of you do this and have any of you gotten past doing this? I really, really hate this part of myself and would give anything to learn how to get past it.

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Date: 1/6/2004 8:24:00 AM  From Authorid: 12133    Yeah, you're a spoiled brat. I should just MAKE you do stuff, and then you won't have a choice  
Date: 1/6/2004 8:24:00 AM  From Authorid: 23101    I have the same thing. :P  
Date: 1/6/2004 8:24:00 AM  From Authorid: 28193    Yes, I do that. I put stuff off, until the last minute.  
Date: 1/6/2004 8:29:00 AM  From Authorid: 11341    Yup, I do the same thing and its MUCH worse if I am told to do it.  
Date: 1/6/2004 8:32:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16442    I know DMK, if someone thinks they are going to tell me what to do, they can hang it up, because it will not be done.  
Date: 1/6/2004 8:32:00 AM  From Authorid: 60052    I do it all the time, unfortunately, I haven't figured out how to stop other than just forcing myself to do whatever it is.  
Date: 1/6/2004 8:33:00 AM  From Authorid: 62509    you sound like every girl I've ever dated
Date: 1/6/2004 8:34:00 AM  From Authorid: 12133    Fix me some food, woman  
Date: 1/6/2004 8:35:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16442    Yep TDF, thats what I try my best to do now. I just waste soooo much time putting it off. And like I say, this isnt just the "yucky" things, this is fun stuff to. If I have to, I dont want to. ARRGGHHHHH..... LOL  
Date: 1/6/2004 8:35:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16442    Poor Crash, hes gonna starve, men just never learn. LOL  
Date: 1/6/2004 8:37:00 AM  From Authorid: 25390    My fiancee can tell you I am horrible about this. If I want to go do something, I'm ready to do it. But if he wants me to do that same thing and asks me to, I will 99.9% of the time say no. Why do we do this???  
Date: 1/6/2004 8:38:00 AM  From Authorid: 60052    We're women, we don't need a reason!   
Date: 1/6/2004 8:39:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16442    I dont knnow Odd, but normally when you recognize a problem, its the 1st key to solving it, but for some reason it doesnt work in this case. LOL.... We are terrible!!!  
Date: 1/6/2004 8:43:00 AM  From Authorid: 25390    To Die For, I think that's the best problem solver ever!  
Date: 1/6/2004 8:56:00 AM  From Authorid: 12835    Gee, I hope you don't consider a shower or bath a have to item. Would explain a few things though...  
Date: 1/6/2004 8:57:00 AM  From Authorid: 25390    I can't be a hypocrite to my word, Pete.  
Date: 1/6/2004 8:58:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16442    LOL.... nope, my bathtub and I are very good friends, thats where I go to get away from doing those things I have to do   
Date: 1/6/2004 8:59:00 AM  From Authorid: 3688    if someone tells me i HAVE to do something or i'm EXPECTED to do something i'll fight tooth and nail not too...you can ASK me to do it and i probably will with no problem  
Date: 1/6/2004 9:11:00 AM  From Authorid: 21266    OHMYGOD I AM THE SAME!!! im glad someone shares this problem...i know im good in drawing but in freehand drawing classes when im asked 2 draw something ill find any excuse NOT TO..or if i DO listen and draw then the drawing comes out HORRIBLE..!! AHHH  
Date: 1/6/2004 9:16:00 AM  From Authorid: 24856    P~r~o~c~r~a~s~t~a~t~i~o~n...I hate to admit it too. I believe we all suffer with a bit of it in our life now and again.  
Date: 1/6/2004 9:21:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16442    No Otter, this isnt about procrastination, this is about the fact that I can LOOK FORWARD to something, yet when it comes time to do that something, I dont want to and I will go over 500 reasons in my head that I dont want to, when I really actually want to. Five hours later, I end up doing whatever it is and wondering WHY I didnt do it in the first place. LOL.....  
Date: 1/6/2004 9:22:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16442    Procrastinating, which I do well too, is when I do not look forward to something and try putting it off for as long as possible.  
Date: 1/6/2004 9:23:00 AM  From Authorid: 12133    2 words explain it all, dear "hard-headed"!  
Date: 1/6/2004 9:26:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16442    But if YOU werent so hard headed, mister, then I wouldnt have to prove that I am harder headed   
Date: 1/6/2004 9:39:00 AM  From Authorid: 16671    ROLFLMAO, lol lol. One thing MP and Crash, your relationship will never be dull, not with two very hard headed people together. LOL. As for me, MP. I'm so use to doing what every one else wants, I dont even fight it anymore. LOL  
Date: 1/6/2004 9:43:00 AM  From Authorid: 12133    harder headed? or "more hard headed"? or "hard headeder"?  
Date: 1/6/2004 9:47:00 AM  From Authorid: 28946    My daughter does this too MP and I don't know what to tell you.  
Date: 1/6/2004 9:51:00 AM  From Authorid: 12133    Don't feel bad, Penny...Gina's daughter does it too  
Date: 1/6/2004 10:07:00 AM  From Authorid: 1432    I think its called being stubborn? LOL..  
Date: 1/6/2004 10:14:00 AM  From Authorid: 28946    They know how to keep life interesting don't they Crash.   
Date: 1/6/2004 10:25:00 AM  From Authorid: 3648    Sometimes I feel like this.......if I have to do something I will most likely put it off as long as I can lol......and if I'm told to do something well forget it cause I'm the only person in control of me and the things I do ........but you know I know I have to cook etc.....and I don't mind doing it.....so go figure I guess   
Date: 1/6/2004 10:57:00 AM  From Authorid: 21435    Contrary to popular belief, I am basically the same way, Moonpriestess. Oh...Hi Long time, no write. *smile* The folks at work might ask me a question, or more often than not, a favor (everybody wants something) and then get aggrievated because I won't answer right away. Same way with the family: "Yo dad, doing anything this weekend?"..lol.. (you can bet they don't want to take me out to dinner) Some might call it being hard-headed, stubborn, contrary, defiant...I like to call it..being careful.. Write on..  
Date: 1/6/2004 11:12:00 AM  From Authorid: 57404    *raises hand and smiles and wolfish smile* I am the same way. I don't know why I do it, I just do and I agree. We don't need a reason really. We are women. LOL God Bless  
Date: 1/6/2004 11:38:00 AM  From Authorid: 53558    Sometimes I get the same feeling, Moonpriestess. And it is not very nice. Big hugs. Take care.  
Date: 1/6/2004 1:20:00 PM  From Authorid: 12133    You're a freak, Gina
  
Date: 1/6/2004 1:23:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16442    And you're the freak that loves me   
Date: 1/6/2004 1:25:00 PM  From Authorid: 28946    Name calling between members shall not be tolerated Gina and Wayne. J/K I'm trying to be 'oppositional'. Is it working? lol.  
Date: 1/6/2004 5:24:00 PM  From Authorid: 12133    Shaddup, Penny  
Date: 1/6/2004 5:43:00 PM  From Authorid: 28946    LOL @ Crash.  
Date: 1/6/2004 11:40:00 PM  From Authorid: 13897    LoL i do this ALL the time.. so it's not just you! especially if my MOM tells me to.. arrrrrgh! although, other things are easier to do if i have to.. like reading books and writing papers.  

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