Date: 1/3/2004 6:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 52337
Maybe he likes you and is just to shy to IM you first... but i don't know him either. I know alot of girls like that. I'm not very shy. Luv Alws, lizz  |
Date: 1/3/2004 6:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 56074
I'm going through the same exact problem! So, to me, it's pretty normal, lol. I wish I could help you though. good luck *hugs*  |
Date: 1/3/2004 6:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 62472
OOoO Hun, I know the feeling! I am really shy, especially when it comes to guys i like and talking to certain ppl online, and its worse when YOU have to IM them first. But obviously if you end up talking for hours then he doesnt mind talking to u! and think of it this way: you live one time, and you like this guy, just go for it girl! type hey and take a deep breath and enter it. if he doesnt want to talk to you he problly just wouldnt but I doubt thats the case, and if it is at least you wont wonder. I truly know how it is, Ive been there, and it always worked out in the end. I really encourage you to just go ahead and go out and talk to him.. and like YOU said, u end up talking for hours sometimes soo that tells you something doesnt it? Good luck!  -kate |
Date: 1/3/2004 6:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 56293
People always complain I never IM them .. I always have this feeling I'm bothering them ..  |
Date: 1/3/2004 7:34:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25756
oh goshes...thanks guys...lol...I'll try...I'll probably be shaking the entire time! lol  |
Date: 1/3/2004 8:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 33401
aww! I know exactly how you feel! you'll do fine, (if I were you I'd rather IM him first and have a fun filled converstation than not having a chat period.) Good Luck! Love,  |
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Date: 1/3/2004 8:25:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25756
Thanks Farlo! I probably will...try :-D |
Date: 1/3/2004 8:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 27852
guys usually initiate the conversation with me, and sometimes i do too...i'm sure evrything's alrite and fine he chatted with you, you had fun...so? i think that's a really good sign!  |
Date: 1/3/2004 8:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 51531
I don't know... maybe you should relax and not think of it as such a big deal. Maybe you're coming off as too interested? I dunno, lol  |
Date: 1/3/2004 10:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 61946
IM'ing is the best way to communicate with someone when you are shy, cause they can't tell that you are shy. If you are always the one that starts the conversation, ask him why he never talks to you until you send him a message first.
Ask him how he feels about the situation, and you, then you will know where to go from there.  |
Date: 1/4/2004 12:06:00 AM
From Authorid: 51827
Yea, its normal, everyone is a little afraid when we dont know what the other preson is thinking but how can you ever find out if you dont ever talk to him. Just suck up your shyness for a little bit, and dont think about what your going to do, and click his screen name, and say hi. Just go for it, it will make you feel a lot better and you want worry as much anymore. KEEP US POSTED, I want to see what happens  |
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Date: 1/4/2004 11:04:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25756
That's what I was thinking Star Flyer...Stef....what happened was I did talk to him (thanks for the help with that guys! lol), but sadly, he was being a dud...blah...poop on his head. So there wasn't much conversation... |
