Date: 1/2/2004 9:00:00 AM
From Authorid: 13589
i have no trust problems... but my bf does... and it sucks... i can understand why you dun trust people... hope everything gets better for you though... *hugs*  |
Date: 1/2/2004 9:15:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 26049
Lucky u. Wish I didn't either. Thank you, Ashley. *hugs*  |
Date: 1/2/2004 9:17:00 AM
From Authorid: 56293
I have trust issues. Even my closet friends, I still hold back alot of stuff. I just feel as though everyone is out to betray me or something. Sometimes you just gotta put yourself out there .. And if you get hurt .. Get back up and try again.  |
Date: 1/2/2004 9:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 58427
You have a good reason not to trust men. But you have to realize that not everyone is going to hurt you, which I know is more easier said than done. Here's a quote I like, dunno if it'll help any because I guess it's kinda more about relationships but..."There's always going to be people who hurt you, so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around." You just can't think about the what if's. What if this guy is gonna hurt me? What if he's gonna do this? etc... I know it's hard because in a way I can relate to this, but in a different type of situation. I dunno I think I'm kinda rambling, I'm not to good at this stuff, but if you wanna talk ANYTIME just msg me  Hope that helped!
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Date: 1/2/2004 9:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 62509
Well Trust is a very precious thing. If you're like me then you're probably more I don't trust you until you prove me wrong rather then I trust you unless you prove me otherwise. People as a whole aren't good people, so yes they are hard to trust.. but there are the good ones out there even if but a few. There's no real advice that I can give other then try to see if that person is sincere... you will have to trust or your life will just be lived in fear. |
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Date: 1/2/2004 9:22:00 AM
From Authorid: 56293
Ah, that's closest* up there .. not closet. LOL |
Date: 1/2/2004 9:23:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 26049
LOL@ Jenn. I understood you. Don't worry  . |
Date: 1/2/2004 9:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 943
I figure it this way...the right people will earn my trust! It's a defense mechanism I would not be without.  |
Date: 1/2/2004 11:39:00 AM
From Authorid: 17275
I used to have a hard time trusting people, now I give most people the benefit of the doubt and let them hang themselves.  |
Date: 1/2/2004 11:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 38601
I have horrible trust issues and I'm just beginning to touch on why I have them...not something i like discussing but i have to to let it go...try talking out your issues with somebody...especially the person you're trying to trust  |
Date: 1/2/2004 12:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 10754
There's two people in the world I ALMOST trust completely. Couple of other people, I trust to a good extent. Anyone else, no trust at all.  |
Date: 1/2/2004 3:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 62503
i have like the worst trust issues in the world. i trust maybe 2 people. I am generally a kept to myself kind of person. If i could get over it id try and help you but i dont think i can help when i cant help myself =)  |
Date: 1/2/2004 4:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 52746
I'd suggest you lower your expectations of men. If you don't expect too much of them, they can never disappoint you. Say a guy says he'll call. Say ok but don't expect he will; get busy reading a book or whatever to keep your mind off your phone. Have back-up plans to those you make with a guy in case he doesn't show or cancels the last minute. Bear in mind though, that sometimes guys make genuine mistakes and they're not setting out to hurt you deliberately. He may well have been asked to work late or he may well have been asked by his ex-wife to collect their child(ren) from school etc. These things can and do happen. I hope this helps. Take care xxx  |
Date: 1/10/2004 1:12:00 AM
From Authorid: 53054
ok i trust like no-one seriously....i have a hard time trying to even talk to people, and if i do, then i will only tell them certain things...i trusted about 2 people fully who both let me down in the same way and they were both guys....i dunno i dont trust at all now...even when i talk to the person whom i trust the most in the world, i dont tell them everything, because there is still that trust issue...i am working on it...but i only have less than like 2 days because they are away on holiday at the moment, and i leave in eight days...i really hope that they come back before then...sorry i am rambeling....anywyas i dunno i spose that you only have to get over that fear, i spose it is just like hights, some people are so scared that they never climb up anything tall, but once you climb up once, even though you are still scared, and take precautions, you most times will climb it again....*hugz*  |
Date: 1/15/2004 2:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 49689
Trust isn't something that is given freely,it's something that needs to be earned,However you'll never learn to trust anybody,or gain anybodies trust unless you at least give them a chance...  |
