How To Let Go

A little over two years ago a former coworker almost destroyed my life. I wil not keep repeating what she did I am trying to let go of the anger and malice I feel. But it had to do with my providing rides for coworkers I am the only one with a DL and car. And that if I did not give rides she would see to it that I was fired. She was at the time my supervisor. She has since retired but still threatens I had car trouble and she came to work and said you bette rhave a ride for a coworker or else Someone losened my plugs that was the problem with the car I think but have no proof it was her. She was angry because one day I had to leave work early to go with my Mom to the doctor. And it was her way of reminding me. One day I had eight people besides the two a regular car pool with expecting a ride because of her. #1 i have an Escort that can at most hold 4 people. #2 I do not even go the way most of them live. I want to let go but how I refused to give those others rides and said I can only give them to the two I have been taking for 7 years now. I am sick of this but she was well liked and trusted and still has some power I think. She also had her daughter make some false statements against another woman she was jealous of because the woman was single. She had he daughter call and say she had seen her abuse a resident. She has also called the police on her neighbors well over 100 times with complaints about everything from loud music to cats because the neighbor is single. And speaking of single that was another problem for me until she retired since I was single I was expected to work all the OT and holidays since in her opinion I had nothing to do. That has gotten so much better now that she is gone. But how do I let go when she still hassles about rides for others in my car

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