Date: 12/27/2003 3:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 57074
Omg..Im telling you, I would do ANYTHING to be able to move from here and go to a diffrent school with diffrent people and new friends, the friends i talk to out side of school, worry about the next time there going to have sex or what drugs they do. im not into all that stuff, but i cant wait to graduate high school, so i can go to a college and forget about all my friends, it wouldnt hurt my feelings at all if we moved, I want to move to South Carolina ( i love in NC right now) but my mom wont do it because im still in school, Im tired of my family, and my friends and just everything around here..i wont be happy here..ever so when i get out of high school..im moving!  |
Date: 12/27/2003 3:24:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 58334
I'm just like you. Don't care if I ever see these people again because all they worry about is sex and drinking and I'm not into that either.  |
Date: 12/27/2003 3:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 32133
i always wanted to have to fight for something. i fight to get away from my g/f's dad  |
Date: 12/27/2003 3:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 43592
I know exactly how you feel and it's not wrong. I felt like that last year, still do sometimes. But it got to the point where I couldn;t stand it so I got help. I'm seeing a shrink now and it's really helped. That's how I dealt with it, it's also helpful to vent. Being a teenager sucks, so you're most definetly not alone.  |
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Date: 12/27/2003 3:30:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 58334
I actually want to see a therapist, to talk about this stuff because I don't have anyone I can really share stuff w/ except here. I think that would be a pleasant convo for my parenst. "Hi mom, dad. I think I need a therapist" |
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Date: 12/27/2003 3:30:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 58334
I'm all for package 2 |
Date: 12/27/2003 3:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 32133
choice 1: go out have sex with 40 people ruin ur life.then get drunk and vomit and have a headach. then u get to take drugs and kill urself.........................package 2 ont do anything in package 1 and live happily. |
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Date: 12/27/2003 3:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 32133
choice 1 is supposed to be package 1 |
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Date: 12/27/2003 3:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 32133
face the facts most people dont think about wich package they want and go with package 1 |
Date: 12/27/2003 3:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 10798
First, finish school. Then, get out on your own and find the kind of career and life that's right for you. In the meanwhile..don't quit dreaming!  |
Date: 12/27/2003 4:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 52746
When you're older you'll be in a better position to change things. If you're living with your parents right now and still at school, unless they're planning a move out of the area, then you'll have to stay for a while longer but, when you're older the world is your oyster and it sounds like you just want to go for it. So, yeah, by all means do that. As for happiness. Well, that is something we make for ourselves. I always urge people not to become dependent upon one person for their happiness because it just won't happen like that. Of course, people will make you happy from time to time and you will have good times with them but please don't rely just on one person. Happiness is your own creation. If you're content with yourself and your situation, you'll achieve this. You can make sure you're in a good position by getting good grades at school, studying further at college, extra training etc, and yes, sometimes a change of job although all of these can take time, with plenty of commitment, you can get there... I think I'll shut up now! LOL. Take care  |
Date: 12/27/2003 4:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 21435
Nimiwae  I felt the same way you do, back when I was a teenager. Anything I could do to break the monotony, I'd do it. Admittedly, things were easier for me during the summertime since we lived on a river and I was in love with all pastimes, aquatic. Ok, ok, so much for the history. Suffice to say that I was at least as bored as you are. The secret, I think, is to open one's mind and find satisfaction in the world around. It would be nice if we could just pick-up and go somewhere more interesting, but that's not always possible. Might I suggest preparing for the inevitable departure for college. Possibly losing one's self in physical disciplines..You get my drift, I'm sure. If it's any consolation to know: "We've all be through it." You'll make it just fine Afterall, you are my niece..*wink* Write on...  |
Date: 12/27/2003 4:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 54830
*sigh* i feel exactly the same way you do.. Alot of my friends are jerks, and the ones that arent are like your friends with the sex and drinking.. i feel your pain lol, if you need someone to talk to you can always p/m me :-)  |
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Date: 12/27/2003 4:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 54830
*sigh* i feel exactly the same way you do.. Alot of my friends are jerks, and the ones that arent are like your friends with the sex and drinking.. i feel your pain lol, if you need someone to talk to you can always p/m me :-) |
Date: 12/27/2003 5:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 60685
You can always talk to us, it's cheaper!  I do understand about your friends though, they sound like sheep, following the crowd and you've matured beyond that, and your friend that talks about God all the time, I have nothing against God but I see how you would like for her to talk about something else, mix it up a bit, my best friend only talks about her bf and getting married, I'm not there yet and lately I kinda run away from her, I don't want her talking politics but besides having a bf she doesn't really have a life. BTW, are you into arts at all? You can escape the technology and read a good book, take a walk in the park, take up drawing or painting, even writing, contrary to what people think you don't have to be an "artist" to do any of those things. Try approaching new people at school, try and find the opposite of your friends, I'm sure there must be at least one person who doesn't get high on their own nail barnish, meaning with a brain. And remember, college is only a few years away, hopefully you will find some interesting people there that actually have something to say instead of discussing the latest fashion trend or celebrity feud.  |
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Date: 12/27/2003 6:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 54247
I felt that way when I was your age. But, like your fascination with this web page and I notice you are very articulate for 15. I found reading books helped as did part time jobs. I prayed that my life would not be boring (that was the late 1940s and early 1950s). I found college horrible with the drinking, boys expecting too much of females etc., etc. and I am sure it is worse today. Didn't finish college and it took me quite a few years in the real world. BUT, TRUST ME SOMETIMES BORING IS GOOD! RAT |
Date: 12/28/2003 12:30:00 AM
From Authorid: 13897
here is a quote for you: "To get something you've never had, you have to do something you've never done."  |
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Date: 12/28/2003 12:30:00 AM
From Authorid: 62487
HEY i have definately felt that way 100000000 times before, lets see, what did I change? Oh okay i remember, I changed me....thats right I just sat right down and decided that everywhere i went I carried me with me, and if I wasnt happy then maybe I needed to change me so I could view the world differently, and you know what? IT WORKED, i became More grateful and less demanding and I also stopped looking for stuff new and exciting and became happy with what GOD gives me.....The neat thing about life is that nothing (but GOD) lasts forever, things change, ppl change (and not always for the best) so you have to hang on to what you have right now, and enjoy it because a year from now everything will be different.....Someone told me once that if you arent grateful for everything in your life then pick up the Obituraries in the paper and ask anyone listed there if they would like to trade places with you, you know what that struck a cord with me and still does, it is hard to be grateful some days...but i have to remind myself that things could always be worst!!!!! take care and I hope things start to look up for you soon!!!!>>>>tamara |
Date: 12/28/2003 4:31:00 AM
From Authorid: 62146
I know what you mean I feel so trapped with in normal life I need to do something werid or intesing to fill the void. I know I am defently going to live an intesing life even if it kills me. I am 16 we are pretty close in age by the way.  |
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Date: 12/28/2003 4:32:00 AM
From Authorid: 62146
Magenta blue has a good quote there maybe we should both listen to her advise. |
Date: 12/28/2003 9:34:00 AM
From Authorid: 29798
didn't you just post something not to log ago about how people who whine about how bad their lives are get on your nerves?.....  |
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Date: 12/28/2003 10:20:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 58334
um ok I'm not whining...and that isn't what I meant. I meant people who CONSTANTLY want the light on them... |
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Date: 12/28/2003 10:20:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 58334
please check your facts |
