Date: 12/27/2003 12:17:00 AM
From Authorid: 52337
Chic, if it wuz nothing but a sexual relationship why worry about him? It sounds to me like he's a jerk and you shouldnt worry about him. Kiss one of your friends! LoL. There are so many great guyz out there. Everything will be fine! Who knows, maybe if you wont get a kiss your year will be awesome! Luv Alws, Lizz  |
Date: 12/27/2003 1:28:00 AM
From Authorid: 52612
the best advice i could give u is, think of positive things and listen 2 some music, something that inspires u, this happened 2 me just recently and its not easy believe me i've been there. but 4 me it was the other way around i was the one worrying and yeah the same goes 4 the type of relationship i had, but mine was worse, i listened 2 some inspiring music, thought about the positive sides and the future and its getting me through, 2 bad i had no one 2 ask advice 4, but oh well life goes on..  |
Date: 12/27/2003 9:07:00 AM
From Authorid: 60685
He's not worth it, as simple as that. Try going out on the scene and if he comes up ignore him, not for sport but for dignity, of course if he says hi it's only polite to say it back but don't give into his game. Whatever you do keep yourself busy, take up a new hobby, dancing classes, take a walk in a park, go to book readings, maybe a couple of bars with your friends, the idea is to keep yourself busy so that you won't have time to sulk, at least that's what did it for me, I would vamp myself up, get all sexy and get out of the house, maybe you can even get a makeover or a day at a spa, may sound shallow but getting a new look and a lil' pampering does help you relax and feel better, I'm trying to behave myself cause whenever I get bored my hair pays for it, I go to the salon of course, don't wanna dye my hair green or something, hehe. And if it's worth anything I'm not gonna be getting a kiss either, I don't think so and you know, it's ok.  |
Date: 12/27/2003 9:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 62181
I always put myself through the same head game, not really caring about a guy but worrying about what is going on when he doesn't call. It just doesn't make sense to get all worked up over nothing but I do understand the game. I think it's a girl thing and I don't have any advise about how to stop thinking about him. Eventually something will take his place and you will have other worries, or at least that is how it works for me. lol anyway good luck. And yeah, I won't be getting a new years kiss either. No big deal, there will be other new year's.  Peace  |
Date: 12/27/2003 11:25:00 AM
From Authorid: 17275
Maybe you will have someone new to kiss??? I wouldn't waste my time on this one!  |
Date: 12/27/2003 12:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 177
When I was young a platonic relationship meant that there was no romance...and that also included no sex.  |
Date: 12/27/2003 4:16:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 51827
In reference to 177 we are not having sex, I mean I know it sounds like that but we are not and never have. Just wanted to clear that up, sorry.  |
Date: 12/27/2003 6:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 42792
Best way to forget about someone is not to try to forget them at all. You have too much time on your hands, obviously, and need to find other things to do and just simply reflect upon the positive things about him, should his memory come to mind  |
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Date: 12/27/2003 9:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 177
Okie doke, author. Thanks for setting things straight. |
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Date: 12/27/2003 9:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 177
...I may have read something into it that wasn't even there. |
