Date: 12/24/2003 10:49:00 AM
From Authorid: 49819
you arent the only one i never knew my real dad  |
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Date: 12/24/2003 10:51:00 AM ( Admin-FA )
I totally can feel for you hun. I don't know who my real father is. Does your mother know you would like to see him? If so ask her what his last name is and try to search for him on Yahoo White Pages or something.. get whatever you can get for a bit of peice of information. *HUGS* Good luck with your search. |
Date: 12/24/2003 10:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 13589
aww i am sorry to hear that... i think you need to talk to your mom about it... i think you have a right to although you may feel very uncomfortable about it... hope everything goes well! *hugs*  |
Date: 12/24/2003 10:53:00 AM
From Authorid: 56913
Well, first thing I wanna know is, how come he's ur real dad, when ur mum cheated on him and got you!? =O Just saying >< .. Well, if I were you, I would first ask about ur dad, from ppl who knew him, just like ask around, it's dangerous to meet someone you haven't seen in years..I'll pray for you that everything's gunna be alrite love..  Good luck! Merry Xmas and Happy New Year, God bless you and your family! xoxox Shazy  |
Date: 12/24/2003 10:53:00 AM
From Authorid: 52489
Go to USsearch.com. They can do searches and find just about anybody! I've used their services to track down old friends. Good luck!  |
Date: 12/24/2003 10:55:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 56297
thnx so much guys lol and Shazy what i ment wus my mom cheated on my not real dad with my real dad and thats how she got me =P *hugs 2 everyone*  |
Date: 12/24/2003 11:00:00 AM
From Authorid: 15070
I think this is very difficult news, especially right before a religious holiday. But, here are my thoughts....the man who loved you, supported you, was there when you had a fever, showed affection to your Mom infront of you, that is your "Dad". Bio-Dad may have supplied one half of your genetic make-up, by Dad who is there will teach you to be a Man.  |
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Date: 12/24/2003 11:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 15070
Sweetheart, I know it will be difficult dealing with this news. I am so sorry you had to hear this. Please, stay strong.... |
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Date: 12/24/2003 11:03:00 AM
From Authorid: 15070
Ooppppsss......I see you are a girl (HooBoy is my face red) |
Date: 12/24/2003 11:16:00 AM
From Authorid: 13297
If do a query on google.com for Reeno and boxing - there is a Rick Reeno who writes articles for boxingscene.com - maybe you can start there? If that fails definitely talk to your mom - she is the missing link - if she told you about it, she probably feels like you have a right to know about it.  |
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Date: 12/24/2003 11:20:00 AM
From Authorid: 13297
Sorry I didn't finish that last thought, she would probably be willing to share everything she knew and help you find him. You have a right to know who your "real" father is. However, be prepared to not like what you find. In fact, you will probably find that you consider the man who raised you and loved you Dad. Good luck! |
Date: 12/24/2003 11:49:00 AM
From Authorid: 10754
I never knew my father either; he and my mother weren't married, and he left ( for reasons still unclear to me ) before I was born. However, I never had a ' dad '; I grew up wondering why everyone else had a daddy, but I didn't? All I can suggest to you is, this man who raised you obviously loves you as his own; think of him as your dad, and don't let this cause you to love him any less.  |
Date: 12/24/2003 12:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 16671
To me a real dad is the person that raised you. Not the one one that created you and has not been in your life. The real dad is the one that worked to feed you, clothe you, took care of you when your sick, ,paid the medical bills, taught ya how to ride that bike, took ya on vacations. I've been told by my dad that its a possiblity that I'm NOT his child. I even know the name of the man whom could be my father. But ya know, dad raised me and did all those things I just said. So when dad brings this up about me perhaps not even being his, I just laugh and tell him, well Dad, all my kids and most of the grandkids have your red hair. Perhaps its one of the other kids your talking about? LOL And he will laugh with me and say thats right, it doesnt matter anyway, I loved you, I raised you.  |
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Date: 12/24/2003 2:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 62339
My dad wasn't ever married to my mom and left before I was born. He was just my moms boyfriend and I don't even know for how long, we never talk about him. Now We don't know where he is or anthing about his life. When I'm older I'm going to meet him and my mom said we'll have to hire a private investigator to find him. |
Date: 12/24/2003 2:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 46527
What Firstborn said.  |
Date: 12/24/2003 2:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
if he was a champion boxer that gives you a bit to go on.... and you have a location... there might be a few USMers on here who live in that town that might be able to help you, do you have any idea of a last name?  |
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Date: 12/24/2003 2:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
i can understand you want to find the blood relitive and i really do hope you find him.... i think alot of the other people are also commenting that respect the man who raised you as your father as well, don't treat him any less of a father because he didnt have a hand in physically creating you like the other man did... i can totally understand you want to find this other man to help learn who you are... because like it or not he is part of you |
Date: 12/24/2003 4:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 49498
Nothing. I dont know my dad and I dont care. Its no big deal. My dad was the one who was always there, not the guy who couldnt handle it. He doesnt care, why should you? This is just my opinion, it doesnt need to be yours...  |
Date: 12/24/2003 4:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 54987
If your mom cheated on him and thats how she got you...then that means... your 'real' dad isn't your 'real' dad. My cat doesn't know her real dad either, but she's not bothered. I think you're mom should go the whole way and tell you everything about him including the size of his shoes. Then put an ad in the Edmunston paper asking for anyone who knows him to contact you.  |
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Date: 12/24/2003 6:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 15070
Ppssssssttttt.......LSR, I said the same thing. |
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Date: 12/24/2003 9:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 10754
What LSR said. |
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Date: 12/25/2003 8:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 15070
*Sigh* Hello, Dio..... |
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Date: 12/25/2003 10:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 10754
Hehe. Why the long face, LSG? |
Date: 12/29/2003 5:34:00 AM
From Authorid: 56913
oooooh okieh, sorry sis!  I'll pray for you, hope everything turns out fine, love you xoxoxo Shazy |
