Date: 12/11/2003 5:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
Awwww there is nothing worse than life's first heartbreak. hang in there hon, it really does get better. It may not seem that way right now, but it will.  |
Date: 12/11/2003 5:58:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50193
It's been coming for six-months, but I stayed in denial the whole way though. That just hurt me more. I'm done hurting. I may have lost Lia the fiancée and Lia the girlfriend, but I will NOT lose Lia the soulmate and Lia the best friend. I've come to grip -- once again I'm not sure if that's how the saying goes -- with what's going on. I almost lost Lia forever tonight, thanks to my depressed, self-pity actions. Well, I'm not going to lose her. She means too much to me, even as a friend.  |
Date: 12/11/2003 6:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 20956
i am very sorry to hear of your broken heart. i think its the type of pain that only time can heal. i wish you well  |
Date: 12/11/2003 6:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 18527
Dude that sucks... I am sorry... ((HUGS))  |
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Date: 12/11/2003 6:19:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50193
I'm feeling better. I've been lying to myself, but I've known since August -- when she broke off our wedding -- that it was over. I've done nothing but mope around and cry ever since, but I'm done with that. Today I almost lost her as a friend. That would be the worst thing ever. I already lost her as a girlfriend a long time ago; we both were just kidding ourselves. I'm over the heartbreak, and I'm ready to start a friendship with her. If we get back together in the future, great; if we don't get back together in the future, also great. Just so long as we remain friends and soulmates. |
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Date: 12/11/2003 6:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 62410
Gerb: First I'm sorry to hear your news... Second, I'm a gal who's had her heart broke more times than I got fingers and toes. 20 and almost married - you're better off not. You got lots o' time. You have a very mature attitude about it all and that's good -- sounds like your mopping up your own tears just fine. I'll just send you some good strength vibes and some hugs. Hang in there.... Scall |
Date: 12/11/2003 6:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 36901
I'm really sorry to hear that. You are both very sweet people and this is sad news. You have a good attitude though. Stay strong and be a good friend to her. She's been going through a lot lately and it's not surprising that she needs space. Give it time and you never know what might happen. If you want to talk to someone whose been through a similiar situation, feel free to msg me.  |
Date: 12/11/2003 6:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 54570
I know what you going through. I still aint over my deepest love and I havent seen or spoke to her in over five years but yet I think of her everyday. Sometimes time is the only thing to heal a heart. No matter how long it takes. Just remember you have friends here to talk to and to confer with.  |
Date: 12/11/2003 7:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 53836
gosh, I didn't know about this, but everything happens for a reason, and I can tell one of the reasons was to make you stronger. The stregth and courage you have shown in this post gives me total faith that you will be alright! BTW...good to hear you aren't going goth, LOL!! BIG HUGS Batman!! Take good care of you.  |
Date: 12/11/2003 7:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 21435
Greetings to The Vampire Gerbil  Sorry to hear that things didn't work out between Fallin Angel and yourself. Happens. I can remember three major heartbreak scenarios in my life..(and a bunch of itty-bitty ones..hehe, but that's another story *wink*) Step back, re-group and when the opportunity presents itself...try again, if you want to..Yada, yada, yada..the gospel according to kronk..Oh and one more thing, VG..That thing about nobody spitting on you if you caught fire..Forget that, man. You're every bit as valuable and important as any of us..and probably more so than me. Write on...  |
Date: 12/11/2003 7:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 57232
Awwww I don't like to hear this, but it just happens sometimes. I think that you both seem to be good people and I'm glad that you will still have a wonderful friend relationship, maybe it's just a little 'break' from each other? Well whatever it is I'm not choosing sides, you are both wonderful people and I wish you both all the luck in the world with your decisions.  |
Date: 12/11/2003 7:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 53900
Wow I am really sorry to hear that. I know how much it hurts to lose someone you care about that you had planned to build a life with but it does get easier and believe me she wont be the last woman who you will be able to love like that. Give yourself time to get over teh hurt and then when you least expect it someone else will come into your life(((BIG HUGS)))  |
Date: 12/11/2003 7:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 8278
awwwwww. this is so sad =( i am so sorry to hear about this. having your heart broken is no fun...believe me, i know. it sounds like you are finally coming to terms with it. it will take a while to heal your heart...but it will get better, i promise you that. i hope you feel better real soon.  |
Date: 12/12/2003 6:23:00 AM
From Authorid: 19460
awwww it will all work out. and you are right. if she means the world to you, you should be proud to still have her as a friend, instead of not having her at all. who knows, ya'll might just get back together someday i dated a guy once and we were on and off for awhile. it's been 13 years since our final breakup and we still IM each other and he even came to stay with me and my husband for 3 days  |
Date: 12/12/2003 7:32:00 AM
From Authorid: 11341
Im sorry   |
Date: 12/12/2003 7:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 56630
Cuz I am so sorry...I really cant think of somethign to say other than that  |
Date: 12/12/2003 11:23:00 AM
From Authorid: 53909
Aw I'm sorry to hear this and sorry that things didn't work out. I always thought you two were such a cute couple. Keep your chin up and stay stong. We're here for you if you ever need someone to talk to  |
