Date: 12/11/2003 3:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 58334
Cheer up, hun. People can be stupid. I get let down like that ALL the time. It just happens. There isn't much we can do about it. *hugs*  |
Date: 12/11/2003 3:23:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57579
She's been letting us down the past I dont know how many times and I have to have my mom ask cause she'll turn us down.
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Date: 12/11/2003 3:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 10754
I don't think his mom is doing that mess just to hurt you; don't read into things like that, believe it or not the world is NOT out to get ya.  |
Date: 12/11/2003 3:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 55386
Well you can scratch off everyone, cuz I wanna make you HAPPY! Some people are the way they are. Why don't you go to his house and see? Who knows.....Idk, but cheer up, cuz I love ya and USM loves ya, and we wanna see ya happy!  |
Date: 12/11/2003 4:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 14780
Calling his mom back to tell her how "unfair" she is surely wont help for next time...If he was home today, he really may have make up work to do..Im sorry but Im a mom and I could see her point if its the case...Im sorry that your disapointed and dont mean to rag on you about it.  |
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Date: 12/11/2003 4:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 14780
You know what? I just reread your post and I may have taken that out of context...so i appologize if my last comment is offensive. |
Date: 12/11/2003 4:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 62408
The ONLY way I can see her reasoning for doing so is perhaps he skipped school...(you did mention he wasn't in school today), and as 'punishment', she is not allowing him to meet with you, perhaps not stopping to consider that this also in a way punishes you as well. Either that, or perhaps he is ill, and she doesn't want you to get sick, too. Just a couple of thoughts. I never had a boyfriend during my school days, now that I'm 25, and am in my first relationship, on days I'm not feeling well, and am supposed to meet my boyfriend after he's done with work, even if I'm just feeling under the weather from my allergies, I think about it all day, making sure that I'm OK to meet with him. I don't want him to get sick, nor do I want to be cranky around him, and spoil our time together, but equally, I don't want to hurt his feelings. I can understand your frustration though. Perhaps next time, if you were to explain it a little more calmly (I don't know, maybe you did...it's hard to interpret how you spoke the words in terms as to how you've typed them)...just take a couple deep breaths. One more day to get through before the weekend. Take care, and hang in there. --Christine  |
Date: 12/11/2003 5:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 13283
That had to be a HUGE turn off for you Misty Spirit . If the guy cannot make it to your house , he needs to let you know ahead of time that his visit might be 'iffy '. He probably thinks nothing of it , but let him know it upset you . Razzy aka  |
Date: 12/11/2003 5:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
People do this sort of thing to me to don't worry your not the only one.  |
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Date: 12/11/2003 6:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 62410
Don't take it so personally, it sounds like a mother/son/homework issue here - not a diss Misty thing. Cheer up - Scall |
Date: 12/11/2003 6:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 62478
I could say many things here to try and cheer you up, but I won't. Life is full of hardships and dissapointments and to try and make you feel better would make the lesson easier. And the truth is we need all the lessions we can learn to prepair ourselves for the harder times to come  but its not to worry. smile all things come full circle ....deathletgo  |
Date: 12/11/2003 8:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 51049
I guess that is just a part of life, its not a nice thing, but it happens.  |
