Date: 11/21/2003 6:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 3688
Ask yourself if it's worth the risk of losing her as a friend. Typically it's *not* a good idea to date someone your friend has feelings for.  |
Date: 11/21/2003 7:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 52866
Okay...so it took your FRIEND admitting she likes him for it to "really dawn on" YOU that you like him? Don't do that. She told you about liking him first. And as her friend, it's kind of your obligation to respect that, despite anything. Trust me. My friend Christina like this guy Jody. Our friend Anastasia knows Christina likes Jody. Anastasia has a boyfriend, but she STILL flirts with Jody like crazy, and Christina has basically ended their friendship over it. So don't do it. Like him, fine, but do it secretly. Don't go out with him.  |
Date: 11/21/2003 7:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 27623
Ohh, I'm soo sorry you are in that position. I'll just say this...I could never date anyone that my friend likes, or so I say. I guess when you really like someone, there's nothing you can do about it but I have always been able to step away. I recently had a friend who was very close to me, date a guy that she knew I really liked. I had even cried to her about him and she knew how sick i was over the situation. What did she do????? I went home for for 4 day for Easter and when I came back, she informed me that they liked each other and she was going to date him. Then she expected me to be ok with it. Ohhh, I was soo hurt that I cut off the friendship. To me, that was horrible becuase I would have NEVER done that to her. We are friends again, but it took a lot of courage and strength to talk to her again. She still doesn't think she did anything wrong. So....I'm not sure what to tell you. I just hope all things work out in the end for you! Love,  |
Date: 11/21/2003 9:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
No boy is worth losing a friend over. There are other fish in the BIG sea  so if he does ask you out at some point YOU need to evaluate it....would going out with him be worth potentially losing a friend over?...personally...I doubt it.  |
Date: 11/21/2003 9:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 53008
wow my friend has the exact same problem. but she knows the boy likes her and not the other girl and the other girl likes him more than she does so she just is goin to just stay friends with him. she doesnt wanna ruin her friendship  |
Date: 11/22/2003 11:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 16155
This happened between my best friend and I and we talked to each other about and decided if he asked either of us out we'd be happy for each other...easier said then done I know  |
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