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Date: 11/15/2003 1:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 62246
Have you lectured her? If she doesn't respond well, I say that you may have to snitch on her. I hope it all turns out well! -Sparky the WonderDog  |
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Date: 11/15/2003 1:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 19682
I had this problem and I mentioned it once and got called down for it. Truth is why is she getting a salary and not producing work. Here you are earning yours. It is not fair and the next thing they will be doing is putting you to help her out. I have been there. Chances are though she will be found out by someone who will want to see her work and it won't be done.  |
Date: 11/15/2003 2:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 62104
Gosh I really don't know, but hope you figure it out- sounds likf a tough situation. Good luck  |
Date: 11/15/2003 2:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 25756
Well, you might have to snitch a little bit, but do it in a way that isn't direct. You could make a comment to your boss that you've "been having ar hard time finishing this latest project by yourself."   |
| Date: 11/15/2003 4:43:00 PM From Authorid: 62410 Snitching usually isn't the way to go -- it kind of makes you look bad. Do you have a policy in the office where you can ask the other girls for help when you are overwhelmed? (we do that in my law firm) If you are being over worked, perhaps you could appeal to her sense of team spirit and ask her to help you out. If that doesn't work, and if she truly isn't pulling her share, it will probably be noticed eventually by the owners. They're busy and let things slide for a while but they notice. Scall |
Date: 11/15/2003 6:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 49465
dont let her oops |
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Date: 11/15/2003 6:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 49465
if you do the project all by yourself dont let her take the credit let everyone know it was your work and not hers do let her take the credit |
Date: 11/15/2003 8:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 5252
to a point i know where you are coming from. my job wasn't as high tech, and important as yours is, but i was still in the same situation. my boss asked me what i thought and i told her straight forward, i know that my boss was not happy about it, i realize that snitching gives you a bad name, but i would somehow let it slip in front of the big boss, just casually...  |
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Date: 11/16/2003 6:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 19682
I never understood the word "snitching". Right is right and wrong is wrong. If this person is being paid a salary, it is not fair to others that she does not want to do work. It makes one person underpaid and the other overpaid. I would love to be a judge. Sorry but I like honesty and if a person looks bad for snitching, too bad. I call that looking out for the company. I am retired now so all that comes easy to say. |
Date: 11/16/2003 1:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 62408
Is there any way you can subtly mention to the higher ups that you're having trouble with this project? Or is this girl the type who always seems to look busy just when she has to? Granted, you don't want to look like a snitch, but you also don't want her getting credit for something you do all the work on, either. If you could find a way to have the boss or someone 'drop by' while she's slacking off and you're working like crazy, that would be great. She needs to be caught in the act... your just saying something might not be enough. I wish you luck, and hope the situation works out for the best. Don't let her intimidate you, but don't stoop to her level, either. Work hard on the project...and make sure you get credit for the work you do. If it comes down to it, hand in your parts of the project seperately maybe, if you can.... I don't know the policies of your office. Good luck to you. Take care. --Christine  |
| Date: 11/17/2003 4:14:00 PM ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16000 tahnks guys....i now have all control of the project.....but it isn't just projects it is normal daily tasks that she doesn't do.....thanks though |
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