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To Study, Or NOT to Study??? MissC.

  Author:  49101  Category:(General Advice) Created:(11/14/2003 9:22:00 PM)
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Hi all! I hardly ever get to get on here anymore! I miss you all SO MUCH! ESPECIALLY since you all give the BEST advice EVER!

So here is the dilema. I have FINALLY made it to an official Retail Management Position. I am an assistant manager of a Bostonian Clarks store in an Outlet mall. The money is... DECENT, and the perks... well, ok. I LOVE having my own money. I must say that up front. I recently moved back home tho after some major financial trouble. Now my mom has made me an offer that is almost to good to be true. She wants me to study. Go to College. And quit working. She says I have the potential to really be a GREAT writer, but that I need to go to school to help Hone my talents, and to have something to Fall back on of course.

the thing is, I finally got the job I have strived for for the last 8 years. Maybe not where I thought it would be, but it is the job I wanted. It isn't all I hoped it would be, but I can move on to bigger and better things. Liek in another store. But honestly, there is only so FAR you can go in retail. unless I want to be a CEO or something and I would STILL need college. (But honestly that doens't interest me)

SO. Quit my job (At the ripe old age of 26) and stay home and go to school, and give up my freedom (it would mean giving a certain amount of control back to my mother and I HATE that, AND I hate having to DEPEND on someone other than MYSELF) never having my own money cuz all my student aid would go to my bills and my mom, and basically being like a 12 year old again. *Shudder* BUT on the up side getting an Edumacashun and learning what I need to take of myself forever. (Plus I could still work PT)

OOOOOORRRRRR Keep working a retail job and work my way in up to management upper manangement etc. And go to school PART TIME and take FOREVER and a day to get any kind of degree... Keep my money, my car, my freedom, and my independance.

HELP ME PLEASE! I have been tossing this around for a couple of weeks now, and I STILL don't know what I want to do.

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Date: 11/14/2003 9:26:00 PM  From Authorid: 19625    Oooooh, this is a toughy. Well, try listing out the Pros vs. the cons and see who beats out who, or pick from a hat, or eenie-meenie-miney-mo, or something like that. LOL, I'm sorry if I'm not much help, but it's hard to answer when I don't know the FULL situation. Erin-  
Date: 11/14/2003 9:29:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 49101    Lol, I don't know the full situation either! LOL and I am in the MIDDLE of it! LMAO! No, I am just lost. I don't know if I am young enuff to be "OKAY" with throwing all of my responsibilites and Freedoms out the window and going to school. I mean... What if I don't like it???  
Date: 11/14/2003 9:31:00 PM  From Authorid: 16845    if your not sure at this point...keep the job and take a few classes and see how you like it...do that for a semester...then decide.   
Date: 11/14/2003 9:34:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 49101    Hey BECKY! I was thinkin that would be a good Idea. But at the same time... I don't know. My job has become a real drag lately. But If I base my decision off of that, and then I hate school.... Grrrrrrrr. So many choices! It sounds good. And then, I want ot go to school BAD! I mean I am really excited about it. i don't want to put it off... And then I think, but what If I REALLY don't like it. See what I mean by confused. I can't even keep my ideas in order!  
Date: 11/14/2003 10:31:00 PM  From Authorid: 53052    stay in work!! a writer is all great and fine but how many people try to get a job writing vrses how many people starve! arts are great but don't give up your hard skills... i'd say keep the job abd do schooling part time a few courses at a time... could your mom have made this comment becuase your finally able to be independant? you can move to managment then district management thyen further up... in chains there is always further to go up  
Date: 11/14/2003 10:33:00 PM  From Authorid: 53052    i donno how much you want to do this.. but i find it odd that your MOTHER brings this up right when you get to where you want to be and have money and feel happy by tossing into a schooling where you will be broke and NEED to depend on her again  
Date: 11/14/2003 11:20:00 PM  From Authorid: 57232    First of all....I don't know what to say! I can't help you at all with the decision. But I will say that I am 26, and I look 18, but every once in awhile the subject is broached and I'm found out! And people act like it's the end of the world that I'm still here. I was faced with the same decision you are making, but I was a little bit younger. I was 20. I could get higher in Hollywood Video and get as far as who will ever know, I won't because I left and did the school. Will it work for me? Will I make something of myself still? Scary. Just whatever choice you make, don't be afraid, because either decision is scary. To go or not to go....Maybe a Jr. College that has transferrable credits for college college and part time. So during the duration of the jr. college trial you'll see if it's still the route you want to go? Good luck in whatever you do.  
Date: 11/15/2003 9:34:00 AM  From Authorid: 53558    I am so sorry, MissC, I can't help you out this time. Great big hugs. Take care.  
Date: 11/15/2003 9:49:00 AM  From Authorid: 47218    hey miss C-- as a full time college student myself (at the ripe age of 27), I think it is never too late to get a college degree and I think that, as you seem to be a pretty intelligent person, it would be such a waste not to give yourself a shot at it, especially since, as you mentioned, there is only so far you can go with a high school degree. College opens up so many doors for you (if you go about it the right way). So why limit yourself? As others have mentioned, you can take a class or two to start with and see how it goes. I sincerely do not think that it will go terribly for you. And besides that, a lot of companies have programs that reimburse for educational expenses. Maybe yours does, too. You should check into it. You could work part time and get a free ride...that would be a pretty sweet deal. So what are you so scared of? c'mon!  

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