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I Need Advice About A Friend =-bootz-=

  Author:  51463  Category:(General Advice) Created:(10/21/2003 4:21:00 PM)
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Hey everybody! Thanks for reading this! I need some advice pretty badly on a few situations involving one person.

There was this girl who we will call Cassie for reference. A while back (years) this girl Cassie and I were close friends and I had a crush on her but I outgrew it (literally, I'm like significantly taller than her). Anyway, over summer my friend brought her up so I was wondering what happened to her and I got her number. I called her but she never seemed to want to talk so I kind of gave up.

Two weeks ago she called and talked to me for like ever. She was always calling because she liked me and she asked me out - but we go to different schools and I actually wanted to see the person and get to know her better than two or three phone calls so I said we can meet up on Saturday and I'll tell you then (we had a football game I was going to with some friends and she was going to be there). She continuously called and so did all of her friends practically every 10 minutes asking for a decision so I said no.

She got very upset and told me she hated me and that she wouldn't talk to me (all because she couldn't wait the two days until the football game when I would decide). Well life moved on for me and I Wasn't too heartbroken.

Recently she started talking to me again but she's like so hateful. She called me today and told me how bad her day was and when I said I was sorry she flipped out and hung up the phone! I only said "I'm sorry" and she got so mad, I don't understand what she wanted from that.

Well the major problem is about this guy she likes. She told me two days ago she still liked me and I felt bad so I said we can go to the movies friday. Here was her response.

"We can go to the movies but if I see (another fake name) Jordan there you've got to leave me alone."

Now I'm thinking, I'm not horribly unfortunate looking so why should I have to lie about who I'm there with (especially after how much my friends made fun of her and I still gave her the benefit of a doubt). She replied with "well I like you but I looooooooooooove Jordan". I'm like "oh, well I'm busy Friday anyway so bye."

She now calls me or IM's me and talks about Jordan and about how in love with him she is but how he's dating this girl (fake name number 3) Kelly. Now I know this can't be true because Jordan is openly homosexual, so now I realized he hasn't told her and she's like fawning over him and I don't know what to do about it! It's all she talks about and I feel so bad for her that I try to be nice to her and get nothing but criticism.

What should I do? =-bootz-=

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Date: 10/21/2003 4:28:00 PM  From Authorid: 35160    wow, she has some problems. maybe shes trying to make u jealous or something, i dont know. but it definitly sounds like u need to keep some distance between yall. she sounds whacked...  
Date: 10/21/2003 5:02:00 PM  From Authorid: 25756    Wow, this is a toughie. Lol, like SpookyGal said, she's got some problems! I suggest that unless you like her, which it sounds like you don't all that much, you should just try and ignore her completely. If she calls, say you're busy and have to go (or something to that effect) and if she IMs you just don't M her back. She'll get the message soon enough. It sounds like she just likes the attention and only would want you as a kind of "backup plan" boyfriend or something. Don't tell her that this guy is gay, because she probably won't believe you and/or she'll get mad. Just leave her alone while she's sorting out her problems.  
Date: 10/21/2003 5:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 61966    Sounds to me like she was trying to make you jealous, talking about Jordan and all. I agree w/ SpookyGal, she sounds pretty messed up to me. I'd stay away from people like her. Maybe you should just ignore it when she says something negative, I know it may be hard but it isn't fair to you when you are nice to her and she is being hateful. I hope your situation improves and this girl stops being craZy!!  
Date: 10/21/2003 5:09:00 PM  From Authorid: 61966    I also agree with Agent Q!!  
Date: 10/21/2003 5:17:00 PM  From Authorid: 8555    Forget her.....you deserve someone who likes and loooooooooooooves only you!  
Date: 10/21/2003 5:25:00 PM  From Authorid: 60685    Agent Q said it all, ignore her, she's obviously a child, I wouldn't want a person like that as a friend.  
Date: 10/21/2003 6:00:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 51463    Thanks ya'll I'll take your advice next time she calls or IM's! =-bootz-=  
Date: 10/23/2003 10:05:00 AM  From Authorid: 45876    She sounds really mean and it sounds like she is lying that she loves Jordan she just wants to make you jealous, forget her find someone who likes and loooooves you for being you. xoxoxoxoxo  

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