Date: 10/11/2003 1:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 10798
Maybe a trial separation is the answer. If he truly loves you, being apart from you for a while might cause a change in attitude and behavior. Just a thought.  |
Date: 10/11/2003 1:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 29532
Go to counceling.  |
Date: 10/11/2003 2:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
i'm strong believer in if it isn't going to work between the mom and the dad... that they should part ways before the child has any memory of them being together... with that said.. and you have been with him that long... boy never really grow up...  |
Date: 10/11/2003 2:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 29775
you can either try seperating for awhile or else go to counseling. you have your baby to worry about and you dont want her to grow up seeing her parents fighting. If it is meant to be then it will happen. If not then you need to move on and show her the love that she deserves.  |
Date: 10/11/2003 3:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 36704
I know how you feel, opposite of your situation though. My g/f and I have a son who's 13 months and we've had a lot of problems since he's been born. Everyone keeps saying wait it out, she has post partum depression, she's just adjusting, it takes time etc., but I'm sick and tired of waiting for her to quit acting like she's psychotic. She's also the youngest in her family and acts like a spoiled brat. I don't really have any advice, the whole situation sucks and I'm sorry you're going through it. Good luck with whatever you decide to do. Midnightly whatever it's not always the guy who doesn't grow up.  |
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Date: 10/11/2003 3:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
base i'm not specifically targeting saying only boys never grow up... i know many females who never grow up also... and some traits(expecially the spoiled baby one) after soo many years of being spoiled and having every whim answered...it becomes a hard wired thing is is VERY hard to change....they tend not to want to let go of it....if you can no longer put it up and you have tried... it might be worth seperating...give him his time to grow... and hopefully he will be an active father in his child's life |
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Date: 10/11/2003 4:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 36704
Really you weren't specifically targeting only boys, I woulda never guessed with your boys never grow up statement. I'm done here, I'm not gonna turn her post into an arguement. Sorry author, I hope you find someone who can help you. |
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Date: 10/11/2003 5:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
base i'm really sorry about your situation but please don't take it as a personal stab at you... it was a general comment and yes i may have forgotten to put SOME infront of "boys never grow up" because it's not all that don't... and this post was directed at males so i said it in a male form.... yes there are many females out there who don't want to grow up or refuse to... it was NOT any sort of personal jab...and i will say again.. i'm sorry about your situation... and the situation of the poster |
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