Date: 10/11/2003 12:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 16164
no one has faith in him because he doesnt have faith in himself....the world is the biggest reflection of yourself, people treat you the way you treat yourself, they dont realize it but it is true...beleive it or not, but he really does walk around with a huge sign blinking on his head that says I a heroin addict, they can pick each other out of a crowd.and sober people can, but choose not to see it.if you do call his parents, tell them, maybe work it into a conversation somewhere, if they get upset or say they dont beleive you, dont worry about it, most people dont want to beleive their child is slowly killing themself, just keep standing dont let anyone nock you down.he will keep getting worse...they dont beleive they have a problem, they can handle it they can detox themselves......thats what they say, anything to pacify their addiction ya know.......there isnt alot you can do.as for him not remembering anyone, he does but his mind is all backwards, my daughters dad forgot her he forgot me, and the torment we went thru because of him is so unreal....he loves his bag more than his own kid, it is hard to say but its true...and he wont admit it....I just sit here waiting for that knock on the door....not knowing what I am going to tell my daughter if and when the day comes.you daddy is gone.and that breaks my heart that someone who took care of us and loved us for so long....doesnt love his family as much as heroin.I dont know why or how someone can give up their family and life for it, they are puppets, so many strings attached tangled in the strings, it is easier to sit in the entanglment of marionette strings than to really open their eyes and work at cutting themselves free, embarrasment shame and guilt, thats what they let hold them down.you have to look at this one of two ways.....1)he will just up and decide he wants to be clean, no one needs a rehab to help them decide that...or 2) just brace yourself for the reality of it, I dont like the thought of the reality of it, but thats what you have to be ready for.you cant save him.only he can.each moment that goes by is the chance at life they keep asking people to give them, but only if they realize they have to take the chance not be given it.  |
43506 Category:(General Advice) Created:(10/11/2003 6:53:00 AM)