Date: 10/10/2003 12:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 62365
Hi Kim! I don't think your boyfriends means to be insensitive or not concerned about how you feel. I mean, I don't want to sound stereotypical but guys aren't too concerned with playing the mediator sweetie!...we are! I mean...if this bloke is saying bad things to your boyfriend about you, then yeah...he'd better stick up for you! But if your boyfriend just knows that his mate just doesn't like you, then don't hold that against him. We can't all get along ya'know? As for you always picking arguments with him...do you think it's because of his mate?
smiles...Ana  |
Date: 10/10/2003 12:13:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53507
thanks! yeh, it might be because of his mate  |
Date: 10/10/2003 2:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 51827
I was the same way with my past boyfriends. no matter what I would do I would get angry and everday something new to fight about. It was so hard for me to see me hurt them. Well you see how I said my past bf, cause I do not have them anymore cause I was always that way and too much drama for them to handle. I just hope you try to calm down and do not argue so much cause you never know when you might lose them, trust me, take it from someone who has had the same experiences, except you can change yourself before it is too late. Maybe there is something in your life that is stressing you out. First off I think you should tell your bf that you think you have a problem with bringing up arguements and ask him to help you overcome the need to fight all the time. I.E. every time you bring something up tell him to ignore you and just leave you alone for a second to cool down or just help you relax, make sure he is aware that you are trying to stop hurting him.  |
Date: 10/10/2003 3:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
well sit down with him and talk to him(or have your BF play mediator...) and you know what... next time you should see yoru BF and tell him your sorry!! sorry for saying and doing all the nasty things.. and for him to know that you do not mean it when you say it... AND ask him to help you stop it...and work your butt off to stop it... you have the love of a great guy.... dont push him away.. because if you keep being nasty... you will los ehim forever  |
