Date: 9/25/2003 2:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
Ahh..that's too bad. I'm really sorry to hear that you are going through this with your family. Maybe they can work something out. Just Hang in there.  |
Date: 9/25/2003 3:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 43807
Take it one day at a time. and dont forget to just breathe.  |
Date: 9/25/2003 3:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 53548
wow thats crazy and im really sorry i have bi polar disorder also i know how that is  |
Date: 9/25/2003 3:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 25756
No, it's good that you should talk about this. Don't keep it all balled up inside of you. Maybe try talking to one of your closest and most trusted friends about it, or if you have to talk to one of your guidance counselors (I've never really liked talking to the guidance couselor much, but oftentimes they really can help). If there is absolutely no one that you think you can talk to this about, try taking a walk or a long bike ride or do some sort of physical activity to get out any anger and releive some stress (plus endorphins when you exercise lift your spirits a lot-and if you have a punching bag it really helps a lot!).  |
Date: 9/25/2003 4:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 38601
aaaw...don't leave, it'll be ok. My parents have been married for 35 years and the day i got all my stuff for prom i had an argument with my dad and when i talked to my mom about it, she said very nonchalantly that she'd been considering divorce...if they got a divorce I'd probably live with my mom and we'd probably move to England where she's from...I'm still freaked out...so just take everything one day at a time...it'll be ok  |
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Date: 9/25/2003 7:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 62349
You really shouldn't leave. Just take everything one day at a time and breath. You really should talk to someone. My parents have TONS of problems and fight just about everyday. I'm going through pretty much what you are. Hang in there. ~*Hugz N' Kizzez*~ -ch0c0lat3shak3- |
Date: 9/26/2003 4:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 53054
Bootz...ya family might do with some really loveing at the moment...amybe if you are those types of people, you should all sit down at the table and talk things out, bc u have a lot to say...u NEED to talk about this with someone, maybe a good friend or a guidence councellor! it really does help! *hugz* im sure things will work out for the best...even though it may be bad at first! *hugz*  |
Date: 9/28/2003 10:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 54987
Oh don't leave! We enjoy your input. Life is like that Bootz and many of us have had family problems similar to yours. They have been together a long time, so breaking up won't be easy for them. You may need to talk to them about how you feel. Better telling them both together. Tell them that you feel scared. I'll bet they'll realise how their behaviour is impacting on you and maybe they'll try to make better for you all. It seems like a lack of real communicatiion going on. So maybe you could ask for a family conference. But don't leave the site... there are people here who can help you get through this. You need somewhere where you can vent and USM is the ideal forum. We don't mind you venting... vent anytime you want. Do I have to get on bended knee? STAY!  |
51463 Category:(General Advice) Created:(9/25/2003 1:36:00 PM)