Date: 8/26/2003 11:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 45684
Well, first of all, if you have a boyfriend, does it matter if he likes you? Anyway, it's hard to tell..he might just be really flirty. Does he act that way with a lot of girls? If he doesn't, then I'd say yeah he likes you. And I don't think you were cheating, but I'd still be careful   |
Date: 8/26/2003 11:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 62310
If it makes you feel uncomfortable you need to tell him to stop. Even if he means it in just a friendly way. Everyone has their own definition of cheating. To me, you weren't because you weren't enjoying and encouraging his behavior. But it's up to you to define cheating for yourself. Princess Rhiannon  |
Date: 8/26/2003 12:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 30747
The guy sounds like a creep to me. Of course I could be wrong because there are people out there that are very affectionate but come on, he just met you and he's all over you like white on rice. I would steer clear of him. Besides, you have a boyfriend so this shouldn't be an issue right? I think maybe if he tries anything like this again you should make it VERY clear that you are in a relationship and besides, that's some kind of sexual harrassement if you ask me. Don't give him any encouragement. No you didn't cheat but sounds like you were close. *smiles*  |
Date: 8/26/2003 12:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 25756
No you weren't chearting, and yes I beleive he likes you--or is just WAYYYY over the top touchy-feely. I actually would be kinda scared if I were you because you only met him 2 days ago!! lol  |
Date: 8/26/2003 12:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 58078
Why does it matter if he likes you if you have a boyfriend who you say you love. Do I think you cheated No..but I would tell my boyfriend about the way the guy was acting cause if it got back to your boyfriend it might be twisted and cause lots of problems between you two. You didn't cheat, you did nothing wrong. But you should of been honest with the guy and told him to stop because you had a boyfriend and thats not right. You must think you did something wrong or enjoyed the attention if you are questioning cheating. You need to tell the new guy to back off cause something will get back to your boyfriend.  |
Date: 8/26/2003 3:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 62184
I don't think you were cheating, i agree with IP though, you should tell your boyfriend cuz the more people find out, the more the story gets new twists all over the place and once your boyfriend finds out it could come around to you were kissing the other guy..etc..etc.. so before to be on the safe side.. tell your boyfriend. A good example of what i'm talking about is the game telephone.. where when the last person heard the message.. it was completely off from the original. I can understand though if you want to know if he likes you even though you have a boyfriend, you want to know who else likes you.. a special feeling almost that there's guys out there that will accept you..etc. I've done it several times, it didn't mean i liked that guy but knowing that he liked me gave me some type of satisfaction. Anyway, before i turn into the energizer bunny, i'll cut to the chase. Yes, i do think he likes you or was just trying to make it seem like he did so eventually you'd start liking him and it'd give him the chance to lead you on and drag you along behind him. Or he was just TOO touchy-feely and i wouldn't recommend starting to like him if it came to that. As far as i know, you did everything the way you were supposed to. ~Silent Existence~  |
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Date: 8/26/2003 3:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 62184
Oh, and by the way, guys don't normally tell you how they feel. They keep you in suspense for as long as possible. It took my crush about 4 months before he even gave any type of hint that he felt the same. ~Silent Existence~ |
Date: 8/26/2003 6:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
You have a boyfriend.. it doesn't matter.  |
Date: 8/26/2003 6:44:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 55386
Okay, lotsa people here are saying that I have a boyfriend and it doesn't matter. It's not like I want him to like me, it's just, if I know he does, and he tries it again, I will do the definite right thing, and tell him that I know he does, but I have a boyfriend and all. I just wanted to make that clear.  |
