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Date: 8/25/2003 7:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 45630
You have to get to the root of his troubles. Unless you can find out what he is trying to escape from you won't be able to help him!  |
Date: 8/25/2003 7:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
unfortunately until he realizes that there is a problem and accepts it there really isn't much you CAN do....My uncle was an alcoholic for the longest time...everyone tried talking to him....but NOTHING helped until HE realized that he had a problem and sought help...  |
Date: 8/25/2003 8:01:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 59241
He quit drinking like 2 years ago cuz he knew he had a problem... now suddenly he's worse than before. I think he knows he has a problem...but he doesn't care.  |
Date: 8/28/2003 6:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 52489
People don't suddenly go back to alcohol unless something has happened. You and your Mom need to check into his work, and then the family finances for any irregularities. Then, you and your Mom need to start making plans to separate from him. I know this sounds bad, but verbal abuse can easily give way to physical abuse, and from there it will get worse! Talk to friends and relatives about the situation, and see if you can find a safe place to go. Don't be embarrassed--this is what families are for! Your Mom needs to set aside money in a private account he doesn't have access to, because he may get fired soon! Now, here's some more bad news: drinkers don't admit they have a problem until they hit bottom! That's why you and your family are going to have to find a place to run to, or get him removed from your home until he's ready to admit he has a problem, and that may take some time. Remember this: Our parents are human beings. They make mistakes. The best way to think of them is to never stop loving them, even when you don't like them anymore. Also, check out a group in your area called AL-ANON. It's a support group for people who have loved ones who are alcoholics. They will be able to help you! Hang in there, and keep in touch!  |
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