Date: 8/16/2003 9:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 46530
First question and second are really tied together. If you are nervous (which you are bound to be the first time you do something) you wont be as fluid in your movements as you would be if you were relaxed. You will look jerky etc. Secondly, don't look at this as a test. Yes there may be people there that you know, but if you don't want to dance at the time then dont. Sit in the corner and tap your foot to the beat. If you feel as time goes on that you want to get up, go into a group of people in the middle of the floor so that no one whos looking will pay you attention and just do what you want. As time goes by you wont be so jerky and you can relax. Basically just have a good time, and only do what you want, when you want. Otherwise you won't be able to have a good time with all these worries flying about in your head  |
Date: 8/16/2003 9:43:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50664
Thanks, thats some really good advice and I really appreciate it! Thanks loads!! |
Date: 8/16/2003 12:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 22852
First.. have fun. Second, as the music is flowing move to it, let your body feel the music and know this.... NOT everyone is watching you, they are busy with themselves. Just feel the music and have a great time.  |
Date: 8/16/2003 1:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 43706
Don't worry! I'm not a great dancer and so when I go out with my friends I ask then to nudge me if I start embarassing myself! Remember that most of the peeps there will not know who you are and you'll probably never see them again so try and just go with the music and enjoy yourself, there are no real rules to dancing (just dont do any robot dancing!) If you're still not sure just see what everyone else are doing! Hope that helps and have a great time! lol  |
Date: 8/16/2003 2:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
just let the music take you.. and follow the rhythm....and move move..  |
Date: 8/16/2003 2:31:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50664
Thanks everyone! I guess I'll just have to try my best and hope all goes well! |
Date: 8/18/2003 9:29:00 AM
From Authorid: 60395
look at what everyone else is doing.  |
Date: 8/18/2003 10:01:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50664
I just want to say a big thanks to everyone who posted some advice for me. It was a really good night and it also turned out to be a foam party too (with a foam machine, foam fights, y'know) and I had a great amount of fun! Thanks again guys! Your advice really helped me relax! |