Date: 8/15/2003 2:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 13969
My first instinct is to talk to both of them and tell him how he feels. not be mean about it or anything, just let them know he feels like he's being left out. if things still don't fix themselves, or the other guy and girl start making very clandestine meetings, I say dump the girl. That way, he still has the friend...and if he friend starts dating the girl, he can dump both of them becuase that would show him how lousy both of them really were...IMHO. Hope that helps -Stacie   |
Date: 8/15/2003 2:51:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 40881
That was his first instinct too SandGhost.. He did talk to both of them and told them how he feels..but I think personaly that the girl likes both of them.. and he's getting played.. But she does sware up and down that she doesn't like the other guy.. I don't know..lol.. They are young.. so maybe it's just part of growing up..  |
Date: 8/15/2003 2:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 16705
well if nothing was going on why didn't they invite him over also? i really think he should sat down with both of them and demand the truth, then he can make his own decision as to what to do but if i were him i would just write them both off cause if they guy is suppose to be a good friend then he wouldn't go over there without him and if the girl claims she's falling in love with him then she shouldn't have let the other guy come over. i say cut your losses for with friends like that you don't need enemies. best of luck. Hamb918  |
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Date: 8/15/2003 3:08:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 40881
I agree.... but I guess it's hard to do if you really like someone.... Thanks for the advice.. maybe he'll agree too if he see's what other people think. |
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Date: 8/15/2003 3:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 13969
I think we both know first instincts are always right ;-) |
Date: 8/15/2003 5:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
here's the question to ask...DOES he trust her? If he doesn't then there's no point to the relationship...same goes for the friend....if he doesn't trust him then what's the point?! who needs enemies with friends like that if ya know what I mean...NEITHER relationship will survive if he can't trust either of them.....  |
