Date: 8/3/2003 10:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
i have a few US silver dollars*L* and it's good your doing that for her she probally needs the help but can't admit to it and probally needs the company too |
Date: 8/3/2003 10:57:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53909
Midnightly...Yeah, I'm happy to go over to her place to check up on her. She can't around too much anymore since her car is gone from her accident. |
Date: 8/3/2003 11:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 53900
Yes I have et people who live like that...I feel kinda sorry for them. It is good that you will be helping your grandma out though. |
Date: 8/3/2003 11:36:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53909
Jessica....We feel sorry for what has happened to her also. It was a very good thing what we did for her. |
Date: 8/4/2003 7:30:00 AM
From Authorid: 8278
i think it is very sweet what you are doing for her. i have 4 cats so i know how stinky their litter can be if not changed regularly. it probably helps her alot to have you stop by there. and the company is probably very welcome. i know my grandparents use to love having people stop by for a visit. they would get so lonely. you have a wonderful heart! |
Date: 8/4/2003 7:35:00 AM
From Authorid: 54247
Rough and exhausting job! But you seem to like her - so, enjoy! You are right on - frequent visits and you can dump the litter! Thank you for setting an example! RAT |
Date: 8/4/2003 7:42:00 AM
From Authorid: 23796
I have a theory (Just a theory mind you) That a persons house often reflects the way they feel on the inside. If your depressed or never have visitors, you'd be less inclined to clean. Why bother, doesn't bother you, no one ever visits anyway..etc. I have no problem with people living that way as long as they have no one else they are responsible for living with them (Such as children) It is dangerous and unhealthy for a child to live like that. |
Date: 8/4/2003 7:45:00 AM
From Authorid: 44321
You are a good hearted person PSC I am glad you helped grandma out that way and cleaned up for her,I don't know why anyone wants to live like that but they do.But if you keep up with dropping by to see her you can make sure all stays nice and clean and keep the litter pan/pans fresh.I am surprised nobody is sick from living with all that in the house.But karma will be smiling on you thats for sure |
Date: 8/4/2003 3:26:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53909
Cage...All of my grandparents passed away except for one who is in a nursing home and I haven't seen her in a long time. I wish that I could though but I don't have the money or time to visit her where she is at. I'm real glad to be able to spend time her. |
Date: 8/4/2003 3:27:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53909
RAT...Yup, that's one of the main things I will be checkin up on is the litter box. The cats were so happy when I changed their litter box a couple days ago.LOL! |
Date: 8/4/2003 3:30:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53909
Lady S....I wouldn' doubt it if she was feeling depressed. I don't think that she gets too many visits. Every now and then my bf's mom visits her and sometimes my bf's dad does too. The next door neighbor are really helpful too and they talk a lot. Grandma is also a teacher or a helper in an elementry school and she is very happy to be there. Grandma used to have Uncle Tim and Debbie living there and they would just trash the place. Thankfully Tim isn't allowed in that place anymore but sucks that they just left the house like that how it was. |
Date: 8/4/2003 3:31:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53909
Medusa....We're surprized that no one has gotten sick from how the house was too. The place still needs to be worked on but only little things here and there and I'll be able to help out with that. We might plan another weekend to do more house cleaning inside and out. |
Date: 8/4/2003 3:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 15394
what a neet thing for you to do !!! I'm sooooo happy that you cared enough to do it and care enough to go back again!!! so cool I can't say enough how I wish people would reach out... even if it is to say hi and chat!! KUDOS TO YOU!!!! |
Date: 8/4/2003 4:02:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53909
Jungabel...I'm feelin a lil nervous about going over there by myself. LOL! My bf's dad is offering to pay me to check up on grandma and the house but I really don't want too much money from him. It's a good thing to do and I'm happy to do it. She sure can use the company and I could really use the time to be doing something and having someone to talk with. |