Date: 8/3/2003 10:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 53909
I wish that people wouldn't be so shallow. Not so cool. Most people that I know think that if the person is good looking on the outside makes the person so perfect which is not true. I've seen good looking people and they have a poor heart and personality. Know what I mean? So many people out there that are too shallow and judgemental on looks or whatever. I care less what the person looks like. Personality is the only thing that I look for in a person.  |
Date: 8/3/2003 10:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 57079
i know! my best friend does that sooooo much that i just stopped telling her when i like a guy yes i do think she has a good taste in guys... when it comes to looks! but the funny thing is that shes never had a b/f!! it just shows that when your super picky like that then you dont get whats right!! i say that when you like someone it dosent matter what they look like just how they make you feel well at least thats my opinion! lol thanx 4 giving me something to talk about!! <3 always, Guitar Babe  |
Date: 8/3/2003 10:12:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 5252
PSC, exactly!! i really hate when people have to be judgemental like that...i mean a person is a person, looks don't make you anything!! i look for a great personality and good sense of humor, also i think if a person wants to make the remarks they can make it to someone else rather than the person who knows the person they are talking about, you know what i'm saying?  |
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Date: 8/3/2003 10:15:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 5252
lol, GB, i know how you feel, my friends do the same thing to me. Well you know, it doesn't matter if they're attracted to them, it's if YOU are...am i right? Why would you date someone you aren't attracted to? |
Date: 8/3/2003 10:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 36704
I do date based on looks and personality. Attraction is part of it you can't have a relationship with someone who you don't find attractive. What I might find attractive in looks may be different from what other people find attractive. It's just individual taste. Less attractive people are not the only ones who can have good personalities. To say that good looking people have no personalities or bad personalites is also being judgemental.  |
Date: 8/3/2003 10:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
some people are soo judgemental and soo shallow...she sounds like the type of person who would dump a guy if he gained 10 pounds  |
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Date: 8/3/2003 10:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 53909
I've been with my bf over 3 1/2 years now and while back, one of my old friends saw us together. She asks me who I was with and I told her that he's my boyfriend. She gives me a real nasty look and does a thing where she's about to gag and asks "What do I see in him?" Ugh, that made me so mad! |
Date: 8/3/2003 11:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 27046
I agree with Base.  |
Date: 8/3/2003 11:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 49091
My friend is sooooo like this!! oh poor me i can't get a guy. you are so beautiful sarah you get all the guys, but omg your last bf was ugly!! I (meZ) thought he was a cutie but it was a blind date and i liked him before i saw him so its more of a personality thing.(tslked to him on te fone a lot) She does the oh poor me i am soooo lonely you get all te guys! you flip your hair and they are after you! I disagree with her completly!! If I had that much luck every guy would be after me. Everyone has bad luck wth guys but with her negativeness shes really bettin a 1000!!  |
Date: 8/4/2003 12:42:00 AM
From Authorid: 62146
Here is a saying I think she should hear. "our eyes are meant to make us see but they really blind us from what really matters" We all have a different idea of perfect and what is goodlooking but we should love them for what we should see insid.
*Cosmic Freak*  |
Date: 8/4/2003 7:20:00 AM
From Authorid: 8278
i agree with base. although i do not believe in dating people based on looks alone, if someone is attractive, they catch my eye. but what i see as good-looking may not (and probably doesn't) be what everyone else thinks is good-looking. i have been told i have "strange taste in men". lol. if someone catches my eye, i get too know them. if we click, great. but i can't base everything on looks. if the sparks are there, they are there.  |
Date: 8/4/2003 7:29:00 AM
From Authorid: 23796
Some people just can't see beyond the exterior. I try not to judge these types so harshly because I know in my heart and mind that they're gonna live a hard life of lessons in the future. I tend to feel pity more than anything for people who can't get beyond the cover. As long as she looks at people and things like this...she's got a long road ahead.  |
Date: 8/4/2003 9:26:00 AM
From Authorid: 55386
I know exactly what you mean. My friend Garcia, she is like "Isn't that guy hot" I am like, "Yeah, I guess." "Heather, you and your stupid personality trait." And, I tell her "Looks don't matter. There could be a really hot guy, that smacks people around! Do you even care?" She didn't answer. But I know how you feel. I just wanna smack her sometimes lol.  |
Date: 1/29/2009 5:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 23101
Yes! I have to admit that I've been guilty of doing these before, but I've learned my lesson! It is really annoying, ESPECIALLY since I've been on both ends!  |
