Date: 8/1/2003 7:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 14780
It could be worse...they could plan on staying...Always look for the positive in any situation..it will come.   |
Date: 8/1/2003 7:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 22852
OK see if maybe your boyfriend and best friend can move in and help share expences. As for your sister, that is just sad. I am sorry her and her friends did this to you. Remember.. every dog has its day.  |
Date: 8/1/2003 7:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 33041
Oh my!  I am extremely sorry about this. Very sad, indeed. have you tried talking to your sister? Or your sister's boyfriend? or you mom even? Maybe she could help. One thing I don't understand. Did they move into your home?  |
Date: 8/1/2003 7:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 48689
I'm sorry...if I could help I would...maybe you could try to get money from her? *hugs*  |
Date: 8/1/2003 7:12:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49101
Well, my new boyfriend JUST got home from Iraq three weeks ago. He was enlisted for wight years so he didn't really have a Job to come home to. There foire, He is out. And as for my best friend she lives with her mother whom she takes care of. And she has a thirteen year old disabled daughter too. THE LAST thing she needs is for me to crash with her. I am just tired, and ranting...  |
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Date: 8/1/2003 7:13:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49101
No, we rented this place together. It has oth my name and hers on the lease, which I now have to break. At least my credit is not the only one getting messed up lol |
Date: 8/1/2003 7:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 33517
I am sorry that this has happened to you...There are lots of people that like to take advantage...I have people like that in my family also...Just remember to keep your chin up...And be thankful that they are going...I hope that you can find new Roomates with some respect to your things...So, you don't have to move back home...**Big Canadian Hugs**  |
Date: 8/1/2003 7:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 11348
Gosh.... I would be really mad too. Man.... I feel for ya and I hope everything works out alright...  |
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Date: 8/1/2003 7:21:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49101
Aw the two love birds are SO HAPPY thy get ther own place! They are now in the room giggling and planning... I swear I could just SCREAM AT THEM!!!! |
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Date: 8/1/2003 7:22:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49101
Well, I gues I will just go and finish packing my room... night all. |
Date: 8/1/2003 7:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 25756
That is so horible! I think you should have a calm face-to-face talk with them about how they deserve to at least help you pay those bills. (I know they deserve to pay ALL those bills they so nicely racked up for you, but you might just need to use that as a compromise or something). Sorry I can't help better than that.  |
Date: 8/1/2003 7:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 3321
Well, Miss C., don't dwell on their happiness for too long. They'll be gone from there shortly if this is her lifestyle.  |
Date: 8/1/2003 7:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 49091
I'd kick em out. Every single last one of them. I would definetly not stand for it! I say kick em all out.  |
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Date: 8/1/2003 7:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 49091
I'd kick em out. you have to pay the bills and everything is in your name. you own the place. its not fair for her to have her own place. How is she going to be paying for these bills? She can't turn them over to you!! I say you kick her butt out (i know shes your sister but tough love is sometimes the answer) and tell her she needs to find her own place or stay home till she can respect your privacy, keep the house clear of all guests and respect you. |
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Date: 8/1/2003 7:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 49091
If they are going to rack up bills, and make the place look like a dumpo they need to pay half the bill or divide it and they need to clean up after themselves or they get the boot. I'd definetly push the issue of having them kicked out until they can hold up their ends. One of the MANY rules in this house is if you make a mess YOU and no body else cleans it up. If you make dishes, YOU do tem. if you bring a toy out, YOU put it away!! |
Date: 8/1/2003 8:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 16671
Cant you co lease it to someone else so that this will fill the promise of the lease? Or maybe you could put an add in the paper for a roomate to help you out? I'm sorry this happened to you. I'm affraid I would not be fuming, I'd be in there , grab her by her hair and toss her out a window. LOL, sorry I guess I'm not in christian mode tonight. God forgive me.  |
Date: 8/1/2003 8:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 12341
I agree with Deb, (FirstBorn), grab her by the hair and toss her behind out the back door, along with everyone else.  |
Date: 8/1/2003 8:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
take her to court!! she signed a lease she signed over bills she and HER friends rang up bills gather ALL the bills and MAKE HER PAY!  |
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Date: 8/1/2003 8:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
have you GIVEN her a list of the outstanding bills?? and informed them if she doesn't pay... hrm |
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Date: 8/1/2003 8:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 12341
....agrees with Midnightly too! |
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Date: 8/1/2003 9:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
pester her every moment make her sign a peice of paper KNOWING how much she owes and saying she will PAY it back and just pester pester pester you are in your right to pester her to get her to pay... bring it up over and over and over again.... |
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Date: 8/1/2003 9:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 16671
I agree with midnightly too. |
Date: 8/1/2003 10:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 1799
yups.. i agree with midnightly.  |
Date: 8/1/2003 10:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 28767
Move in with them... 
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Date: 8/1/2003 10:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 53900
You know I wish I could help you...that really does suck that you have to move back home with your mom. I wish I could move out of where I am now. You can look on the bright side though at least you dont live with soeone who think they own you and you have absolutely no freedom to come and go as you please. I know I do and it sucks. I would try to find someone to rent the other room out to. Is there someone else you know that could afford to rent the hosue with you? Someone whom you trust more? Maybe you could get down to bare basics and be able to afford the house at least until the leaase runs out? I dont know I wish I could offer more advice it may be for teh best though to move back home at leaast tehm you will not have to deal with your things being trashed  |
Date: 8/2/2003 6:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 18527
Sue them. Document EVERYTHING and SUE them. FORGET she is your sister and take he rto court!!  |
Date: 8/2/2003 9:15:00 AM
From Authorid: 56840
I guess I don't need to say anything; it's all been said for me! :P This is a serious situation. You should make no allowances about people like that, regardless of who they are to you. Like Kethria and several others said, I bet this would be better solved as a legal matter, without any promises or unwritten agreements.  |
Date: 8/3/2003 8:49:00 AM
From Authorid: 28363
hi Miss C, the pain and turmoil you are going through is understandable, your friends and acquaintances at Usm wish the best in your next living arrangement. Hang in there, this move was forced for a reason, and you described it very well. I can't promise you there will be a silver lining, but I am almost 100% sure that there is one  |
