Date: 7/29/2003 7:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 48858
Where do you want to be in 5, 10, 20 yrs?  |
Date: 7/29/2003 7:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 28190
Lievout has a good one... I have asked My fiancé what he thinks true love is, and to explain.. We have this weird little way of every so often we make a few questions out on some paper and trade them for each other to answer.. Its a great way to get to the depth of a person, and one of the rules to it, is they have to be 100% honest.  Maybe you can try that.. My fiancé doesnt talk about certain things but he will write them down, because its easier for him to let things like that come out. Thats why he and I do it that way  I hope things go well for ya Looney sis *hugs*  |
Date: 7/29/2003 7:52:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15997
thanks lievout...thats one I've thought of too. Amanda, thats what me and my bf kinda did yesterday over the internet...he was having fun answering my questions and I learned a lot from him too. There are things my bf doesnt feel comfortable talking about either. thanks for the comment though sis. *HUGS*  |
Date: 7/29/2003 8:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 50678
yes my finace' and I have. It is good to ask question there are times when we still do ask question.  |
Date: 7/29/2003 8:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 1799
my boyfriend and I spend hours talking about stuff like that. like, him and i both talk about the type of things we want to teach our children when we are older... we've both asked each other what we want to be when we're older and how hard we're going to work to get to those goals. We share any deep thought that comes into our minds because we trust each other..  |
Date: 7/29/2003 9:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
I think to be able to sit down and talk about any fears that one might have regarding life and love, can open the door for them to discuss anything.....good post hun....  |
Date: 7/29/2003 11:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
yup i know these things... i know what my partners hope are in life and what he hopes to accomplish  |
Date: 7/29/2003 11:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 36901
My husband and I discussed our religions, whether or not we wanted children, our goals, money and what we want out of life. There were a lot more questions we asked and discussed, but those are the ones that come to mind right off hand.  |
Date: 7/30/2003 1:45:00 AM
From Authorid: 48250
The Difference in Being In Love with Someone...and...Loving Someone......Great post.....T/C.....  |
Date: 7/30/2003 5:10:00 AM
From Authorid: 46530
MI must say that the usual one I get asked is "What's that smell?", but jokes aside, my wife and I do sit down and just talk about ourselves, our relationship and what we want from each other and from life. It is quite enlightening, and quite often we don't agree. Compromise is a fact of life when dealing with these issues though. One thing I would recomend is not to taker any criticisms or differences of opinion as personal attacks, or make tyrades of your own  |
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Date: 7/30/2003 6:23:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15997
Thanks Spirits of the Light, Emi, Autny Z *HUGS*, Midnightly, Apryl, Ky-Bluebird, and Farleys...glad to know that most of you talk to your significant others about life and love...and thanks for the advice. It really is important to learn as much about your partner as possible. |
Date: 11/25/2005 4:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 31535
I always wonder what goes on in his head, but, alas...I don't have the guts to ask him much cause he can be sensitive..or take things the wrong way. He is the strong and silent type.  |
