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How close are you to your parents and family? *PunkStarChik*

  Author:  53909  Category:(Discussion) Created:(7/28/2003 6:29:00 PM)
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Hey everyone!

I've been thinking about this for a while, especially about my mom. I've never been to close to her. To the point where we never talked about girl stuff. Like stuff about boys, teaching me how to put on makeup, dating, homework, shopping, clothes, music, movies and the list goes on. I pretty much learned everything on my own and still learning things.

Sometimes I'm jealous of other females that are close to their moms. Of how they would share stories, cook with each other, make up and other things that mom and daughters always do.

I never understood why I never was close to any of my parents. It's just how our family has always been and still is. Even with our relatives, we're not that close either. No one in our family hug each other, kiss on the check or tell each other that they love each other. It's just how my whole family is and has always been.

I've never been to close with my dad as well. We would always argue and he would always put me down, even my bf. He hasn't ever learned to respect who I am and how I am. I've tried talking to him about it several times but he never listened. He would just ignore me and insist that he was always right when he never was.

I just wish and have always wished that I had a larger family and a family that were closer. Sometimes it doesn't feel that there is love in our family but I know that there is. It just doesn't show. I wish that my dad would understand me and respect me and I wish that my mom and I could do mother and daughter things, but we're just not close. We've tried so many times but stuff kept happening.

Anyways, that's my family! Gotta love them. I am happy that I have them, but sometimes it just doesn't seem like a family, know what I mean? How close are you with your parents and family? I'm real glad that I'm a part of USM because I can talk about things that I could never talk about with my family. LOVE USM!! :)

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Date: 7/28/2003 6:34:00 PM  From Authorid: 58078    I am extremely close with my family. Family is very very important to me. We aren't really ones to say I love you all the time but we just know it. Why don't you try making the first step with your mother and try to get close to her and be like others instead of jealous of them. Maybe your mother feels you don't want to be close and you shut yourself down. I don't know...but I would try having a talk with them since it bothers you so much..it would really bother me.  
Date: 7/28/2003 6:37:00 PM  From Authorid: 56293    I guess you could say my mom and are close. But we never talk about dating, makeup or anything like that. We talk about stuff, but not the motherly/daughter type stuff. My dad and I aren't close at all. We can't talk to one another, we yell. LOL. My dad and I just have very different opinions about stuff and that tends to get in they way. The whole family in general tho, Isn't close at all. I have aunts and uncles that live 10 mins away that I haven't talked to in a couple years. . .That kind of stuff.  
Date: 7/28/2003 6:37:00 PM  From Authorid: 53052    my father hardly ever talks... and my mom.. my mom is just a little insane if you ask me!  
Date: 7/28/2003 6:43:00 PM  From Authorid: 25828    not close at all to any member other than my sister and brother - never lived with my dad or mom -  
Date: 7/28/2003 6:44:00 PM  From Authorid: 45948    I am not close to my mother at all. She walked out when I was 9 and tried to come back and be a "mother" when I was 17 but by that time, it was too late. On the other hand, my father and I are just like best friends. I know for a girl that sounds strange, but we are!! Love,
  
Date: 7/28/2003 6:54:00 PM  From Authorid: 15997    I never ever talk to my mom about anything mother/daughter type...we fight a lot...I'm not saying we have the bad relationship but there are just some peeps who cant get along cause they are too much alike, you know?? I've never really been jealous of other girls who are close to their mothers cause I feel i'm close to mine in certain ways...I just feel perfectly fine never talking to her about dating and things like that.  
Date: 7/28/2003 6:55:00 PM  From Authorid: 11348    My mom and I have always been fairly close but still there are big amounts of each others' lives that we do not talk about. My sister and I are pretty close too but same goes with us, we are friendly and hang out but still there are a very big amount of secrets between us. My mom left my dad when I was two, and I didn't see him or hear from him again until I was barely 18. Then, he refused to go to my graduation or send me any kind of congratulation so I lost hope that he could truly be any kind of father to me. After that it was harder for us to be close and we never were, then he finally gave up on me again. My step dad and I didn't get along at all... we were enemies completely. I wish I could be closer to my family also, but I'm thankful for the relationships we do have.  
Date: 7/28/2003 6:56:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    Midnightly...My mom can be crazy sometimes. LOL  
Date: 7/28/2003 6:56:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    Italian Princess...We haven't had the free time to do stuff with each other. She works in the late afternoons and I work early in the mornings. We don't see each other too much. Sometimes we do go shopping but not that much.  
Date: 7/28/2003 6:58:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    Social Slacker....I have such a small family. All of my mom's side of family, which is huge, is on the other side of the world. LOL And I've only met them a couple times. But none of my relatives live in the same state as us. I think that I am a tad bit closer to my mom than my dad though. That's a sure thing.  
Date: 7/28/2003 7:00:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    AngelEyes..I"m sorry to hear about that of your mom. When I was young, I wasn't close to either of my parents. I remember that quite well. Everynow and then, I would be Daddy's Girl but it didn't last.  
Date: 7/28/2003 7:01:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    Heather....My brother and I are the closet. We always hang out. He's trying to get away from my dad. He's still living with my parents.  
Date: 7/28/2003 7:03:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    LooneyGirl...I don't know if I'm that jealous of other girls, but I do wish that I had some of the same relationship as they do with their mothers. I never had a female that I could look up to and wish that I did. I don't know why.  
Date: 7/28/2003 7:04:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    KrazyK...Aw I"m sorry to hear that. I am too happy that I have the family that I have but I wish things could be closer in some ways.  
Date: 7/28/2003 7:08:00 PM  From Authorid: 42515    I'm really close to my parents...but more my mother.  
Date: 7/28/2003 7:14:00 PM  From Authorid: 36704    I'm really close to my dad and brothers. I call my mother by her first name and she could die tomorrow and I really wouldn't care.  
Date: 7/28/2003 7:32:00 PM  From Authorid: 33517    I use to be really close to my mom...I am still close but not as much as I use to be...But, I am sure...we will get closer again over time...I am not close to any other of my family members...**Big Canadian Hugs**  
Date: 7/28/2003 7:37:00 PM  From Authorid: 40979    Well...I dunno what to say about my mom or dad..  
Date: 7/28/2003 7:49:00 PM  From Authorid: 57726    I'm sorry yo hear that you aren't very close to your family... I don't know what I would do without mine... My mom and I don't do that makeup stuff together or anything, but we love going to stores and malls together, and taking little drives with our dog. She's one of my best friends. My brother and I are very close too. Since I'm somewhat of a tomboy, we have so much in common, and we get along very well, I also consider him a best friend. I'm the youngest of my family, and I get along with my brothers very well. And my aunt and uncle are like my second parents, I would be lost without them. My uncle is hiarious and really nice, and my aunt is one of the nicest people you can find, I love both of them more than words can ever tell, they're my best friends too...  
Date: 7/28/2003 7:50:00 PM  From Authorid: 57726    *"Yo" was supposed to be "to"  
Date: 7/28/2003 8:00:00 PM  From Authorid: 8184    Not very I guess. We have our 'bonding' moments....I guess that's OK with me though  
Date: 7/28/2003 8:01:00 PM  From Authorid: 38683    I'm really close with my parents, but me and my dad tend to fight once in a while and it really upsets me when we do. *hugs* Always,  
Date: 7/28/2003 8:41:00 PM  From Authorid: 49976    I guess you could say I'm really close to my parents more close to my mom though then my dad. I'm really close to one of my mom's sisters and her kids.I live with my dads parents. My moms side of the family we all always get together at holidays and stuff. So I guess my family is pretty well tight knit.
Hugs&Cookies
  
Date: 7/28/2003 8:57:00 PM  From Authorid: 54084    I'm very close to my family! I live with my sister and her family and I call my parents every day. They live a few hours away. I tell my Mom everything, and I'm best friends with my sister. I'm also a Daddy's girl. He spoils me rotten even when Mom tells him no. He! He! I'm 35 and he still spoils me! I love it. I'm even close with my cousins on my Mom's side. My Dad's family are almost all alcoholics and drug addicts. We don't talk to them much.  
Date: 7/28/2003 9:56:00 PM  From Authorid: 27046    I am close to both of my parents. I told my father first when I found out that I was pregnant and they were both present when I delivered her too. I talk to my mom about more personal stuff, but my dad and I share things too. My children adore them and they adore my children also. My parents are actually upset if more than a week goes by and I don't bring them up to see them. My mother also calls to ask me what's wrong and what she did if more than a few days go by and she doesn't hear from me. However it wasn't until I was older and was living an adult life that we became "friends". I had a basic parental relationship with my parents and my feelings on things didn't count, as it shouldn't have. They were the parents and I was the child.  
Date: 7/28/2003 10:21:00 PM  From Authorid: 35720    I'm close with both of my parents (I can talk to them quite freely about most anything) as well as my youngest brother, Matt. Also both my grandparents.   
Date: 7/29/2003 1:08:00 AM  From Authorid: 26452    I am pretty close to my mom, but not how you said it, she has alot of medical problems, so she cant do much, I figured out how to put on my make up myself, she cant wear any (bad allergies) I figured out the birds & the Bees on my own,shes too sick to really go shopping with me, but we talk alot, I can talk to her about almost anything, shes normally very understanding, we have the same taste in music and movies etc. My dad Iam not close to at all, and I do not want to be. I do have a HUGE family, and beleive me its not all its cracked up to be, we do say we love eachother and hug etc, but EVERYONE is ALWAYS mad at SOMEONE for doing something that most likely is a rumor started by someone else who wanted revenge lol its a head spinner trying to figure out who hates who and all that crud lol.  
Date: 7/29/2003 6:46:00 AM  From Authorid: 36901    I'm very close to my mom, but I'm closer to my daddy. I'm a daddy's girl   
Date: 7/29/2003 1:52:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    Super Princess....That's good to know that you're close with your folks.   
Date: 7/29/2003 1:52:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    Tina Luck...Maybe in the near future, things will change between me and my family.  
Date: 7/29/2003 1:52:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    Base...I never been close to my brother until a couple years ago, if that. I don't think that I could ever be close with my dad.  
Date: 7/29/2003 1:53:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    Ocean Goddness...Are you near ur parents?  
Date: 7/29/2003 1:53:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    Evil King Stan...I'm the youngest in my family also. My brother is about a year and half older than me. I wasn't too close to my half sister when she was living with us. She ran away from home when she was 18 years old. I've always wish that I had a sister, that was acutally around.  
Date: 7/29/2003 1:54:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    Dizzy Jay...I hate having fights with my dad. Most of the time I try to stay away from him.  
Date: 7/29/2003 1:54:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    Cuzin Crooked Halo...Oh how much I wish that our family could get together on the holidays. Lately, we haven't been doing that. Last year was the first year that I didn't have Christmas with my parents.  
Date: 7/29/2003 1:54:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    HorseGirl....I only cried once with my dad. I never seen him cry so hard before. It was during the time when I was suidical and we were having a talk.  
Date: 7/29/2003 1:55:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    Rika...I couldn't ever talk about personal things with my folks. I couldn't even tell them that I was depressed and they had no idea until they found me at the hospital one day.  
Date: 7/29/2003 1:55:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    Azairyia....I only live about a couple miles from my parents. I go over there every now and then to check on the dogs and to pick up my brother, who still lives there. But they're usually not home when I come around there.  
Date: 7/29/2003 1:55:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    Star...LOL! My dad never spoiled me. But I'm okay with that.  
Date: 7/29/2003 1:56:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    Moon Angel...I'm still learning how to put makeup on. I rarely wear it acutally. I only put a little on me on some days. I meant to say in my post about makeup when mothers teach their daughters about makeup when at a young age.I didn't mean at this age if anyone got confused. LOL!  
Date: 7/29/2003 1:56:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    Kilo's Angel...I used to be a daddy's girl when I was really young.  
Date: 7/29/2003 2:01:00 PM  From Authorid: 57830    My mom and i can be really close at times, but most likely, i'll be PMSing or something and get really mad at her and stay mad... so yeah? From what i can remember of my dad... i was a daddys girl As for my brothers... I'm really close to the one thats like 3 years older than me. We can talk about almost anything. Two of my other brothers, the oldest... i used to fight with them all the time, but now i rarely see them-and when i do see them, i'd say we get along quite well. As for my last bro-my twin- i hate him and i honestly would like him to jump in front of a moving train! i can't stand the little <EDIT>  
Date: 7/29/2003 2:03:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    Sandy Dunes..My brother and I can talk about anything and everything also which is really nice to have.  
Date: 7/30/2003 11:27:00 AM  From Authorid: 16845    I'm an only child....daddy's little girl and mommy's little angel...bwahahha LOL..and I'm super close to the rest of my family.....I'm one of the few everyone runs to cause I am one of the few who 'has their head on straight' LOL  
Date: 7/30/2003 4:55:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53909    LOL!  

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