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Date: 7/24/2003 12:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 26452
Hes kept that promise after 5-6 years after you guys break up?? I'm suprised it took him that long. I don't think it'd bother me at all...  |
Date: 7/24/2003 12:02:00 AM
From Authorid: 53052
i think a part of you wants your cake and eat it too... he's sorta been there floating in the background and now that he's sorta intersted in someone that isn't there anymore.... you should be happy for him... you don't want him to spend his days thinking and living through that "what could have been" would you rather see him happy? or going through an almost unhealthy obsession with being unable to move on?  |
Date: 7/24/2003 12:05:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61893
You are right, and I am happy for him.. I really am! Maybe, I do want my cake and eat it to, however I won't be doing that, and it is selfish on my part. I wish him all the best.  |
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Date: 7/24/2003 12:26:00 AM
From Authorid: 53052
it's great that you realise that.... alot of people who are in your situation refuse to realise and accept it and they want there cake and to eat it too... what is unfair for the other person... |
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Date: 7/24/2003 12:33:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61893
That is true Midnightly, now at one point in my life I was one of those selfish people, but I grew out of it, "Thank God!" I want him to be happy, I am just throwing a pity party for myself..lol I wouldn't do anything to ruin his happiness tho, that is for sure! |
Date: 7/24/2003 6:17:00 AM
From Authorid: 58078
I think its a little selfish for your ex not to be with someone else. Those words and promises were made out of love. But its been 5 years. Times change things change people change. If you moved on, he should be able to as well. But if the two of you are just goign to be alone for the rest of your life you might as well be together then.  |
Date: 7/24/2003 9:24:00 AM
From Authorid: 53284
I think that you should encourage him to find a significant other. It has been a long time for him. If he is interested in someone don't you think that he deserves to be in a relationship.  |
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Date: 7/24/2003 4:06:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61893
Thanks for replying. YES, he deserves to be in a relationship and I hope he ends up in a very happy, and loving one. I hope he loves this woman more than he could ever love me. Yes, it is way past time for him to move on. I agree also on the promises were made when he loved me, he no longer loves me so the promises should be forgotten and void in other words. I am not the devil here, even tho I feel like it now.. Yes, it bothered me a lil when I first heard about it, but I am over it now, cause I know that I want him to be happy no matter what. |
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