Date: 7/23/2003 10:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
err..I'm confused...you're a girl and one of your friends, also a girl, asked you to go out with her as a couple or on a date, but you hung up on her..??  |
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Date: 7/23/2003 10:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
Ooopss!!..heh..heh..sorry about that. I saw on your profile that you are male...so it was a guy that was asking you out..hmm...I don't know what to tell you. I wouldn't be rude to him, but be honest about your feelings and tell him that you're straight...I hope I got this right..lol. I was a bit confused by your post.. |
Date: 7/23/2003 10:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 3648
I don't really see a problem....if you were nice about it then don't worry. If you are not interested then you had a right to say no...simple as that.  |
Date: 7/23/2003 10:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 3321
Well...you're straight. That's pretty much all there is to it. Just like he is attracted guys, you are attracted to women. It might take some GENTLE explanation, but I think he'll be fine.  |
Date: 7/23/2003 10:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
it's not your fault that your not attracted to men.... you should may have said it in a bit better of a way... were you disgusted by what he asked?? were you rude??  |
Date: 7/23/2003 10:57:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 55582
i just said he kept asking for a answer so i told him the answer witch is no idon't know if i was mean or rud to him i hope not  |
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Date: 7/23/2003 10:58:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 55582
i meat this guy through on of my friends |
Date: 7/23/2003 11:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 3125
You will find as you grow that in this world you will face many situations in which you may have to say 'No' even if it hurts someone else's feelings. We are all different and we have that right. We cannot expect everyone to agree nor to have the same lifestyles as everyone else. As long as you didn't say anything to hurt this person intentionally, and his feelings were hurt because you rejected his invitation, then he is the one who needs to understand that not all are homosexuals and the answer of 'NO' is to be expected. As I write this, a question comes to mind..Are you sure he is homosexual? Sometimes people are caught up in rumors and others believe and react to them without thinking that they are nothing more than rumors. In other words, this guy may have simply wanted to hang out with you. I would make sure that this is not one of those cases.  |
Date: 7/24/2003 6:34:00 AM
From Authorid: 58078
Whats your problem? I don't get it. A guy asked you out, you said no, he hung up. Your not gay you are straight, so there is no problem. If he calls again tell him straight out that you are straight,sorry. Theres no problem. If a girl asked you out and you said no and hung up would you think you had a problem then? Why does it matter that its a guy that asked you and not a girl.  |
Date: 7/24/2003 8:39:00 AM
From Authorid: 8278
honestly, you did what you had to. the facts are, you are straight, he is not. that is two totally different preferances. it would have hurt him even more if you pretended to be something you aren't. the next time you talk to him, just explane to him that you like girls. it is nothing against him, it is just that you are straight. tell him you like him as a friend, but that is the furthest it can ever go. i wish you the best.  |
