Date: 7/20/2003 1:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 49101
GIRRRRRRRL, let me tell ya' Men are the WORST thing that could happen to girl! LMAO! I am having a crisis myself this AM, but GOOD LUCK!  |
Date: 7/20/2003 1:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 1799
life sucks.. thats the only answer there is.. but r u sure u would never date those guys? sometimes ppl can surprise u. believe me, i know from experience.  |
Date: 7/20/2003 1:38:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 62181
Oh yes, Emi, this one guy, well I don't know why he even thinks I would be interested in him. We are two completely different people and I'm not saying I'm better than he is or anything, but seriously, he has NOTHING to offer me. And another guy, he's an alcoholic. I won't even GO there. And Miss C, I agree with you 500% men are the WORST thing to happen to a girl! I'm telling you what, if I wasn't strait, I'd love to be gay! lol I'm so giving up and just going to be a spinster the rest of my life...if that's the case then so be it! lol  Peace!  |
Date: 7/20/2003 1:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
It's just cruel irony....  |
Date: 7/20/2003 1:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 57579
I say they dont like you is because they're stupid!! Most guys are except the ones that like me J/K! Instead uf becoming a spinster become a nun that'll make them want you even more  |
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Date: 7/20/2003 1:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 1799
ah, well that explains that..lol. hey, guys aren't always bad! just give it time.. sometimes it takes longer for ppl to find someone.. and thats usually a good thing.. i attract guys easily and i end up dating some real jerks...so.. |
Date: 7/20/2003 1:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 45551
maybe the guys you end up likeing think you don't have anything to offer them...... that would be Irony, huh.  |
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Date: 7/20/2003 1:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
Mof that's a bit harsh don't ya think! |
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Date: 7/20/2003 2:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 45551
Sorry It wasn't meant to be harsh. I was pointing out that people may look upon her the same way she looks upon others...... its a viscious cycle. |
Date: 7/20/2003 2:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 23796
It depends on what it is you find attractive in a guy. Sometimes what we are attracted to isn't always what is best for us and maybe a higher power is at work there to protect you  Take a look at what it is about those guys that you find you like. Looks are only skin deep and by experience good looks often come with Ugly souls. Now look at why you wouldn't consider some guys? Why is that? Ugly? Dorkiness? Nerd? Personally, This life is Trial and error. When you are often looking for MR. Right, you usually end up with Mr. Wrong or MR. RIGHT NOW. Mr. Right comes when your not expecting him. Be patient Great things come to those who wait, meanwhile have fun dating mr. Right now's until then  |
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Date: 7/20/2003 2:26:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 62181
haha MOF you know I almost wrote that in my reply that it's possible that the ones I like don't think I have anything to offer them....and that's probably very true...we all have something to offer and sometimes it's not what someone else needs or wants.....HAHA RM it is cruel irony that it is...Emi you know what I attract jerks too so maybe this is a good thing, to take some time for myself and maybe reinvent who I am...MS lol yes a nun's life would be interesting...Lady Shaman thanks you are so right, about Mr. Right Now...and I'm also trying to figure out why I'm attracted to some guys and not others (except the alcoholic one that's a no-brainer) Peace! |
Date: 7/20/2003 2:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 16849
The world sucks, that's probably true. Just look at it this way, if the world didn't suck, we'd all fall off.  |
Date: 7/20/2003 2:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 47218
perhaps you only want what you can't have...  |
Date: 7/20/2003 3:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 55297
maybe you should give the guys that like you a chance. i mean, u dont have to date them, just talk to them. get to know them. ya know? maybe once u get past WHO THEY ARE, one of those may be possible relationship material. just a suggestion!  |
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Date: 7/20/2003 3:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 55297
also, why do you like the guys u luike? is it looks? or maybe their social status? hmm... if its for those reasons, thats not a good reason to like some one. i learned the hard way... |
Date: 7/20/2003 3:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 23886
Coz lifes not fair ...  |
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Date: 7/20/2003 3:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 23886
or .. u cant always get wat u want .. ? |
Date: 7/20/2003 3:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 46530
life is full of compromises. You will eventually either lower your standards and go for someone in between, who will find you vaguely interesting enough to want to be with you, or you will end up a wicked spinster who knits hats for goblins and has four hundred cats that spit at anyone who dares come near your house  |
Date: 7/20/2003 4:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 56293
Well, the guys who aren't interested in you, are missing out! You should give them guys who you wouldn't consider dating...a chance! People can surprise you! What's one date? You may just find the guy of your dreams! BTW, them guys who you wouldn't consider, probably feel like you do, Why the person they like, don't like them. .  |
Date: 7/20/2003 6:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
are these guys outta your reach?? in a totally differene league then you?? are you judging these other guys thinking they are benieth you?  |
Date: 7/20/2003 7:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 48989
would u not consider goin out with these guys b/c of physical appearance, b/c sometimes what he need or want is right infront of us and we just dont see it or r 2 biased 2 recognize it  |
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Date: 7/20/2003 10:50:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 62181
I don't think my standars are too high. I have been out with a lot of jerks, and I am going by personality flaws rather than physical flaws. I know what I will and won't put up with and I know the signs of danger. (like someone who is possessive right off the bat is a HUGE red flag...) like I said, one of these guys has nothing to offer me and I think it's fair to say that because I know what I want and need and he doesn't have it. I'm not saying either that I will only go out with doctors or men with money. That's not the issue. The other one is an alcoholic. I won't lower my standards and if I end up being alone because I have high standards, then I would rather be alone than to be in a relationship I regretted being in. I have gone out with guys before that I looked at and thought "no way" based on their looks and been pleasantly surprised, and I have gone far enough in the game to know that looks don't matter for much, and I will repeat I am basing my not wanting to be with these guys on personality flaws. Not looks or social status. I seem to always pick the ones that are not ready for a relationship, they just got divorced, or separated, etc etc...and I've been single for 8 years I'm ready. So now it's just a waiting game, waiting for the right person at the right time (sick of the right people at the wrong time...ya know...) anyway hope this makes sense. and I really appreciate everyone's feedback, it gives me something to chew on... Peace! |
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Date: 7/21/2003 12:11:00 AM
From Authorid: 46530
How many guys do you know that are absolutely ready for a relationship? The guy doesnt exist as far as I know. Yes people get married etc but its never "perfect" as you well know |
Date: 7/21/2003 4:08:00 AM
From Authorid: 52746
Sadly, that's human nature. I believe it's away to make us strive for what we think we deserve; never to give up hope but then finally realise that we may have been looking in the wrong place all along or setting out sights too high.  |
Date: 7/22/2003 1:38:00 AM
From Authorid: 62146
Lol I know your pain girl. Their is a guy who asked me out and I don't know if he still likes me or not but people have this crazzy idea that we look like a cute couple and probbly made him think he had a chance but then he is not my type I feel slack about saying that about him and people were all like you should go out with him though you are both losers and retarts  . err it is really anoying. Then all the guys I like are never intested wich could be 1 resoan I have never had a boyfriend But I am a beliver that "The One" is out there and we will be happy together and everything. And yeah so don't worry your not the only one and "The One" is out there. So hope you find a guy that likes you to and hopfuly I will to LOL Any way Peace 2 U 2.
*Cosmic Freak*  |
