Date: 6/29/2003 4:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
Tell him flat out No.....should have done that in the first place....but yeah....Just tell him No....you don't have to explain yourself   |
Date: 6/29/2003 4:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
Just tell him NOOOO!! Tell him you are not taking nude photos of yourself for him or anyone else..thats disgusting and he sounds like a perv..  |
Date: 6/29/2003 4:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 15677
just simply tell him u dont feel comfortable doing this an give his camera back
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Date: 6/29/2003 4:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 42792
I agree with LL  |
Date: 6/29/2003 4:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 1799
tell him no... he has no right to ask for that.... its wrong.  |
Date: 6/29/2003 4:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 31765
NO. Short, simple, plain and to the point.  |
Date: 6/29/2003 4:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 54570
I would say no. Give him his camera back. Cant he take a picture from somewhere else and draw it. He can just add your head to it or something.  |
Date: 6/29/2003 4:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 53909
Yes, just tell him no. That's just wrong. Sounds like a perv to me. Give back his camera and tell him that you're not comfortable with it and just say no.  |
Date: 6/29/2003 5:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
unless he is an art student don't!! you don't feel comfy doing it so don't do it... i don't think it's an approprate thing a guy should ask from a girl... just tell him straight out and he should understand... if he doesn't... drop him a true friend shouldn't ask again if you said no and shouldn't get mad either  |
Date: 6/29/2003 5:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 25390
If he wants to draw you for "artistic purposes" he would ask if you would pose nude while he drew it in front of you. Just tell him NO. If he can't respect that, he's no friend.  |
Date: 6/29/2003 5:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 49101
I agree with everyone else. Just tell him flat out NO.  |
Date: 6/29/2003 5:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 29532
Honey, tell him no way, if he DOES start hounding you, tell someone, this is illegal, and thanks to me someone I knew who did a bit worse than this just got sentenced to over 75 years in a state FEDERAL prison. This stuff is so not cool.  |
Date: 6/29/2003 5:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 47218
firstly, you are under 18, therefore it would be veeeery illegal for him, and adult, to have a nude picture of you-- it is considered pornographic. Secondly, it is generally not a good idea to allow compromising images of yourself in to other people's hands. You never know where they might turn up! Finally, if you feel uncomfortable about it, there is good reason. Listen to your gut feeling, and tell him,absolutely no! Tell him that you don't feel comfortable about it, and you have every right to since it's your body and you don't have explain yourself any further. If he's a good friend, that should be a good enough reason for him. If it isn't, then you should dump him.  |
Date: 6/29/2003 5:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 4887
Tell that perv straight out NO!. If he keeps bothering you, report him.  |
Date: 6/29/2003 5:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 54968
Tell him NO! You don't know what he might do with the pictures....  |
Date: 6/29/2003 5:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 41067
Whilst I don't agree that he is being a pervert (and before I get jumped on for saying that, he might have honest reasons!) you don't feel comfortable giving him such a personal thing. Thats fair enough, just tell him you don't feel comfortable with the idea, and if he's a real friend he'll be fine with it.  |
Date: 6/29/2003 5:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 30986
Tell him no and he needs to get a life. If he keeps harrassing you, find other friends, you don't need him.  |
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Date: 6/29/2003 5:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 30986
EVEN if it IS for artistic purposes, she's only fifteen years old so NO, flat out NO, she should not do it. I'm an artist and there is no reason for an adult artist to want to draw NUDE pictures of a 15 year old. |
Date: 6/29/2003 6:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 62221
I would just say no. I think it is totally unapproiate for him to even ask you. IMO, he sounds kinda like a perv! *Brown Eyed Angel*  |
Date: 6/29/2003 6:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 44321
Tell him NO,you are not comfortable doing it,case closed!  |
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Date: 6/29/2003 6:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 44321
If I had a daughter that was 15 and a guy wanted her nude pictures no matter his reason, he would be getting a visit from me! |
Date: 6/29/2003 6:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 11616
just tell him that one picture is not worth several years in jail, if he wants to draw nudes find an adult or buy a maniquen. dont fall for the lines of a flirt or whatnot. ::HUGS::  |
Date: 6/29/2003 6:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
No no no.. Ashez, he's 18, that's too old.. you're only 15.. say NO and leave it at that.  |
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Date: 6/29/2003 7:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 31765
Whoa...didn't realize you are 15. Yeah, this is illegal. And as bad as it sounds, there are people into this. A nude pic could end up on the internet. You really don't want that. Give back the camera, and say NO. |
Date: 6/29/2003 7:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 36766
just be straight up w/ him, tell him no  |
Date: 6/29/2003 7:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 23075
this guy sounds like a perv....tell him flat out NO  |
Date: 6/29/2003 7:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 14314
Just say no, he has no right to ask you that!!!!!!!!!!!! GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  |
Date: 6/29/2003 8:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 50193
Even if you did, he could get in trouble with the law for Child Pornography.  |
Date: 6/29/2003 9:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 61782
Well for one thing, if he is a "friend", then he would know better than to ask for something so private...also, if he is a "friend", then he would understand the first time you said "no". And it's a digital camera right? Which can easily be loaded onto a computer and right onto the internet for everyone to view. I don't think you would want that to happen. Be smart and say "No" because I think he wants that picture for a little more than using it as a model, if you know what I mean. Don't give him the picture, you'll seriously regret it if you do.~  |
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Date: 6/29/2003 10:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
after checking out your age tell him there is no way in... that he should ask for a picture tell him he's wrong for asking and it's disgusting and immoral... if you were over 18 and he was in art school i would say maybe(i know a girl who models in near nude for a photographer and such but she is 22 years old) he is PRESSURING YOU into doing something that makes you uncomfy and is immoral and can be looked at as illegal! |
Date: 6/29/2003 11:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
First up tell him how you feel. if you are scared of what he will say just think about how bad it will be if someone has a nude photo of you he could give it to someone you don't know how are you going to feel about that. The best thing that can happen is to say I don't want to do this it is so much better than him have the photo with the chance of giving it to anyone. Don't worry about him or what he will say you have a big say in this so stand up for your rights and do this for yourself you will be fine and if he keeps puting presure on you and makes it diffcult for you when you say no then just agnore him. Besides you said he is a friend of your he should understand. So best of luck and do not do anything you don't want to do.
*Cosmic Freak*  |
Date: 6/30/2003 8:02:00 AM
From Authorid: 62220
Tell him NO! He will say anything just to get nude photos of you, so give him back his camera and say no. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself.  |
Date: 6/30/2003 10:39:00 AM
From Authorid: 15904
say NO! and when he asks again, say "what part of the word 'NO' do you not comprehend?" and when he asks you again..just ignore him.  |
Date: 6/30/2003 10:58:00 AM
From Authorid: 46356
well your 15, dont do it, its wrong!!!! but if it makes you feel better go for it, but i wouldnt do it...and im 15 too....  |
Date: 6/30/2003 2:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 36757
don't keep trying to avoid it. face the problem. tell him that you don't want to and suggest that he could just draw you WITH clothes.  |
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Date: 6/30/2003 4:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 41067
Did you actually say no the first time he asked you, or did you just say that you didn't have a camera? If you didn't actually say no to him, he might have assumed you were willing to do it but just didn't have the neccessary stuff to take the photo. I'm sure once you explain to him that you don't want to, that you feel uncomfortable with the idea, he'll drop it, after all, he's your friend right? |
Date: 6/30/2003 4:05:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 5349
The first time, yea I did say no, and he said ok and dropped it, but now his excuse is he ran out of people to draw.  |
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Date: 6/30/2003 4:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 62221
Hey, good for you! I'm so proud of you. I'm sure he can find someone else that he can draw. *HUGS* *Brown Eyed Angel* |
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Date: 6/30/2003 4:28:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 5349
well see I still havent talked to him since posting this so its not time to rejoice yet... |
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Date: 6/30/2003 8:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 41067
Ah, that changes my opinion somewhat, I was under the impression all you'd said was that you didn't have a camera. If you've already said no to him once, tell him no again and also to drop the subject cos it makes you feel uncomfortable, and that no means no! |
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Date: 6/30/2003 10:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
tell him to draw people WITH clothing on! |
Date: 6/30/2003 10:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
I am glad you said no you did the right thing even if he dose not talk to you. And he will talk to you agine.
*Cosmic Freak* |
Date: 7/2/2003 7:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 31048
I agree with Oddsmell...first of all, if he really wanted to draw you he would do it in person...it sounds to me like he wants to use that photograph for a lot more than drawing, if you know what I mean :/. Second, you never know where that pic might end up...you might come across a website someday called "Hot Naked Pics of Bad Ashezz" or something! And third, since you're not 18 yet, he could get in a lot of trouble for child pornography. I hope you decide to tell him NO...good luck  |
Date: 7/3/2003 7:39:00 AM
From Authorid: 56489
First off you should have never took the camera in the first place, but tell him no you don't do nude photos, and leave it at that.  |
Date: 7/4/2003 7:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 39887
Give the camera back and tell him you gave this some thought and you do not wish to give him a nude picture period. Tell him that you think he was wrong to ask you to do this in the first place. If this was being asked of my daughter, he would het a nude picture of the stars when I KNOCKED HIS LIGHTS OUT!!! He is a pervert and you never know where your photo would end up at. You sound like a nice girl, put that bad boy in his place!!  |
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Date: 7/4/2003 7:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 41067
I don't think labeling this person as a pervert is very helpful, do you know the person? What gives you the right to judge him so? Perhaps he is innocent, and hasn't thought of anything other than wanting to draw his friend. Unlikely it may be, but unless you know the person you have no right to go throwing labels around, just as a person who doesn't know you has no right to label you. |
Date: 7/5/2003 5:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 18516
He is now considered an adult and you are under age! Give him his camera back and tell him NO. You don't have to give him an explanation. If he wants to draw something so bad tell him to take a picture of himself and draw that!  |
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Date: 7/8/2003 6:46:00 AM
From Authorid: 25390
Holy cow, I didn't read that you were under 18 yourself. Now that changes everything. He shouldn't even be ATTEMPTING to draw you, even for artistic purposes. I hope you have told him by now. There is no way he ran out of people to draw....that's not possible. It's just a poor excuse. I hope you stick to your guns. |
Date: 7/9/2003 1:38:00 AM
From Authorid: 48250
Absolutely Not...T/C *Kentucky Bluebird*  |
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Date: 7/9/2003 1:55:00 AM
From Authorid: 48250
LOL @Busy Bee You Tell'Em.. If I had kids myself.., I would be Dangerous if I learned Someone asked my little daughter to take nude pics. of herself.., He'd be locked up for a very long time to think about his perversion.. T/C *Kentucky Bluebird* |
Date: 7/9/2003 10:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 42568
Well being an artist myself, I can't really say he's a pervert. I've been asked this as well but I'm 18. I'd probably ask a guy friend the same thing... thing is though, you're only 15 so even if you do decide that you'd be comfortable doing something like this, tell him he'll have to wait until you turn 18. I don't think that's the smartest thing to ask a 15 y/o anyways...  |
Date: 9/17/2003 5:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 15228
No!!! I see plenty of people have already replied, but look what happens to all the movie stars who have had nude pictures taken of them..it always comes back to bite them in the butt. Just tell him you aren't comfortable with it...end of story. If he doesn't respect your right to say no, he may not be the guy for you.  |
