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Confussion ... MissC.

  Author:  49101  Category:(General Advice) Created:(6/28/2003 7:06:00 PM)
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Hey all, I haven't been on in a while. Things are really picking up with business, and I have had some other online stuff too. I hope everyone is doing well.

Ok, as for my question. My ex and I are working on things, mostly we are just staying friends for a while. But he is confusing me. He keeps telling me all these little things, things that make me think about him, he compares me to his current girlfirends, or tells me about them. I don't want to hear about them, and he knows this. So why?

Then of course, he makes these confessions, like in an email he sent me this morning he said, "These are the times I reall really miss you the most" and goes on to say he misses my squeeky little voice saying "Goodmorning Sunshine". I don't get it. He says he misses me, so why not just get what he wants? I told him I am still on love with him, it isn't like I would reject him and he knows it. So why???

I guess my question is, why do people torture themselves? Why KNOW what you want, and know who you want, but insist upon telling yourself no? Do people (men) just LOVE torturing themselves???

I am lost...

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Date: 6/28/2003 7:11:00 PM  From Authorid: 37101    I'm a guy but I'm not afraid to admit that most guys have issues knowing what they're feeling or whether or not that feeling is authentic. He's just as confused as you are, probably. -  
Date: 6/28/2003 7:14:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 49101    You changed your taggie SC! Well, I wish he would stop being confusd and just be honest with me, isn't there anyway I can let him know he is ok? I mean what more can I say to him???  
Date: 6/28/2003 7:16:00 PM  From Authorid: 37101    The best you can do is talk with him on a really personal level if you can. Set your feelings aside and ask him what he feels and it might be revealed just how confused he is. Then afterwards, allow yourself to speak and be totally honest with him. Once you know what each other is feeling, the rest of the talking comes easier. I'm only 14 though so this is probably on a much higher level than I've been exposed to before. (By the way, I changed my taggy a long time ago!) -  
Date: 6/28/2003 7:19:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 49101    Well, your pretty smart for a 14 yr old. I guess I haven't seen you on in a while (Different schedules and such) and that is why I hadn't seen the change till now. It looks nice tho! : )  
Date: 6/28/2003 7:21:00 PM  From Authorid: 40979    I think the best thing to do is talk to him...*shurgs* I am not good w/ guy stuff.  
Date: 6/28/2003 7:22:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 49101    Thx Glass Waves. We are, trying to keep open lines... He is just confusing me tho.  
Date: 6/28/2003 8:08:00 PM  From Authorid: 19092    Well MissC, remember that guys are really stubborn and really dumb about girl stuff. I was impressed by Smooths reply, that was "smooth" and from a young person. Yep, I'm impressed....  
Date: 6/28/2003 8:54:00 PM  From Authorid: 53052    have you two figured everything out what you need to figure out?? are you both clear of all the issues and have they been delt with yet?? if so give him an ultimatum... either get back together or go...you said before the reason you two didn't get back together is you each had personal issued you had to deal with if they have been delt with tell him.... be blunt... who knows he may have been pulling your heart strings all this time with no real intentions to hook back up for the long haul(i really hope not though!!)  
Date: 6/28/2003 9:59:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 49101    We still have a lot to work on, maybe I am just being impatient  

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