Date: 6/21/2003 10:27:00 AM
From Authorid: 5252
i don't really know what to say. except go out and have fun. don't just let yourself set around all day, it wont help. Where I live we have summer programs at the parks, and that's fun. I work at one of the parks for this program, and ihave kids that are from ages 1-17 so even if there aren't kids your age at the park, you can still have fun, if they have this program around your area..  |
Date: 6/21/2003 11:00:00 AM
From Authorid: 47699
When I was a teenager, it wasn't ususual for me to go to see a movie or a concert by myself. If none of my friends wanted to go, I wasn't about to let that stop me. Of course, I could drive at the time, though. You'll be able to get a license soon enough. Just hang in there.  |
Date: 6/21/2003 11:14:00 AM
From Authorid: 28946
Honey, I've been alone alot myself lately and I got some gret advice and will pass it along. Maybe it will help and then again, maybe not cause you know what they say about advice. lol. " All a person can ever truly depend on is the person they see when they look into a mirror. Family and friends will let you down, break promises and commitments many times and so you have to rely on yourself to get through the day to day livings. If you want to see a movie, shop and even eat at a restaurant, plan to do it by yourself and if someone wants to accompany you, that is great but be independant of their company. This will help you become stronger and more independant. I am still trying it myself and it is rough but I am having a blast at the same time. Best wishes.  |
Date: 6/21/2003 12:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 62181
I SOOOOOOOO feel you on this one. I'm able to drive and I'm a lot older than you, but I too am all alone. All my friends are either married or in committed relationships and I am single and not dating anyone right now. I just have to do things for myself. I do things that I wouldn't do if I were hanging with my friends or dating someone, things that boost my spirit, mind, and body. Read books on things that interest you, take a walk in your neighborhood and try to notice something different every time, meditate. I have found that the more I do things for myself, the less I need other people. I'm so sorry you feel this way, I know it's hard. Hang in there remember this is just a phase in your life and it will pass. One day you will find yourself with so many friends you won't know who to call back first.  Peace!  |
Date: 6/21/2003 3:21:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 59241
Thanks guys for replying. I will try some of the things that you guys suggested, but my house is way out in the country. There is absolutly nothing to entertain myself with. I'm always without anything to do. I just can't find anything to keep myself busy.  |
Date: 6/21/2003 4:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
don't look too deeply into it... call your friends they must understand you can't drive and get to join them... try to make an effort on your part to contact and be with the...  |
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Date: 6/21/2003 4:32:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 59241
I do usually call them, but they always say that they're going to so and so's house and that they'll see me later. |
Date: 6/21/2003 6:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 53054
ask if you can go with them if you know the other persons house.....you can walk....i dont have a licence yet (but i will at the end of the month i hope) but if my friends are going somewhere (because some of them drive) i get them to drop me off, or a catch a train and bus and walk to there houses, because i live so far away! *hugz* dont be afraid to ask to go to places with them!  |
Date: 6/21/2003 9:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
Get them to pick you up or something.
*Cosmic Freak*  |
Date: 6/21/2003 11:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 18516
I share your pain..I live in the sticks and I'm always alone. I don't have any friends here so I'm always in the house and there is nothing to do! My two best friends live far away..one in florida and one and hour and half away. So I know exactly how you feel. Maybe you can ask your friends to come pick you up...make plans with them.  |
Date: 6/22/2003 4:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 21912
ya i've been feeling like that since the past 2 months..my friends never phone me, and well i had went to the movies with them only because i phoned one of them to see what she was doing and i have'nt seen them in a long time. then i got ditched by a guy, and that hurt very much and sure i have a car but where do you want me to go when u have no one to go with you. But anyways enough about me maybe you should join an activity and get some new friends, i do'nt mean exactly ditch the others but then u can have more people to hang with. I joined kickboxing and it's really fun and u can meet new people. keeps you busy as well. I get bored a lot at home as well, so i try and get as many hours at my job. If you don't have a job maybe you could get one, and that will keep you busy as well. and what penny said, i do agree on that. i've been doing more things by myself, like going downtown and shopping seeing new sites. You can really think a lot...and have new adventures to tell you friends. you can always meet new people on the streets as well...and i as well live like in the middle of nowhere, it is a town but there's absolutely nothing here. But i think you'll eventually get through this and either find new friends or they will actually start hanging with you. Once you're back in school again that might help as well. good luck  |
Date: 7/6/2004 1:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 52612
really ? well not anymore lol  |
