Date: 6/20/2003 5:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 7952
Oopps sorry, i misread. But i still think you should talk to your husband.. Maybe you could talk to your husband first, and then go out?  |
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Date: 6/20/2003 5:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 7952
Talk to your husband. Your friend can wait.. |
Date: 6/20/2003 5:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
omg AE!!! You should have msged me!! Are you okay?? What happened? I don't know if you should go out or not. I guess it depends on if you think that your marriage is absolutely without a doubt over. If you know that for sure then, I would go out. Hugss hun!! I hope you're okay!!  |
Date: 6/20/2003 5:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 46069
well.. i think that depends on how serious you are about working things out with your husband. If you are serious about making the marriage work..then stay and talk to him.... if you have already made up your mind that that is the end of the marriage then consider going out  |
Date: 6/20/2003 5:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 11341
Any way to do both? If not I would totaly talk to my husband, at least if I wanted things to work out lol. Could hubby go too?  |
Date: 6/20/2003 5:25:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 45948
BUt I'm not sure if I even want to work it out. We've been this route before, this is not the first time!!! Either way, he's on his way up here to my job because he doesn't have house keys anymore so maybe I will just tell him I have plans and see if he wants to go with us but I know how he's going to react. He's going to get jealous and say something smart about how it didn't take me long to go out with another man...even though he knows we are just friends.  |
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Date: 6/20/2003 5:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 46069
ok.. thenhow about this route... Which do you feel ismore important? .. Going out tonight, or talking with your husband?.. I know that the more lighterside of it is to go out... and chancesare that talking with the hub will result in arguement , the rosier side to dilemma is going out.. but will you enjoy yourself, knowing that your husband came from TN to talk to you? |
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Date: 6/20/2003 5:32:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 45948
But Sk8r....he walked out on me Saturday.....i'm not talking he said he was going to.....I was asleep and woke up and he was gone from Saturday until Tuesday morning I didn't hear a word from him and when he did come back he wanted to act like everything was all right and IT WASN'T!!! I worried my butt off for 4 days over him and he didn't want to give me an explanation and when he did it was some pitiful excuse. I'm not stupid and right now I don't really need to see him because you're right, it will end in an argument because I am still verrrrrrrrrrrry angry with him. |
Date: 6/20/2003 5:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 3538
Hmm.. that one is a toughie!!Your husband is coming to see you, on the other hand your friend is visiting from out of town. What to do...I say he is your husband and you are both married, you should talk with your husband first. Maybe you can explain to your friend visiting from out of town what is going on and maybe somtime soon you can go and visit him, if possible sometime. It sounds, though like your husband and yourself needed a breather from each other, which I understand. If this person understands your situation going on with your husband, he should understand that and respect that. Friends are with you no matter what, or at least they should be. I hope your friend sincerely understands your situation. Either way, best of luck to you and I do hope that your husband and yourself will be able to work things out.  |
Date: 6/20/2003 5:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 49976
Thats a toughie, talk to your hubby when he comes to your job and if he just makes you mad and trys to fight tell him you just need some space for a while and go with your friend. I dunno i've never been in this situation before but I wish ya luck in whatever you decide to do.
Hugs&Cookies  |
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Date: 6/20/2003 5:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 46069
if hehas a cell phone on him.. tell him that... tell him you might say something you might regret because you are still very angry at him and that you are notready to see him....make him wait for a while now.. |
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Date: 6/20/2003 5:51:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 45948
He doesn't have a cell phone. I won't see him until he gets here at my job but I did just call my friend and tell him what was going on and he wants me to go home. What's making me mad is that I have had a heck of a week and I was reallllllly looking forward to just kicking back and visiting with a friend and now he's gone and ruined that too!!!! He has impeccable timing! |
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Date: 6/20/2003 5:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 46069
He obviously thinks that you do nothing but stay home and wait for him to make an announcement like that.. quite an assumption |
Date: 6/20/2003 6:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 28193
If it was me, I wouldn't do it. Your Husband might think that you have had this planned for a few days.  |
Date: 6/20/2003 10:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 53427
Wow! You should have messaged me. I hope you're ok. This is a hard question though. Maybe you should wait on getting involved with anyone else. Unless it is just strictly a friendship thing. Not for your husbands sake, but until you can figure out whats best for you. Give it some time. I hope everything works out ok.  |
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Date: 6/20/2003 10:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 53427
Oops I just reread this. Now I see where you said that you and this other guy were just friends. Well then, by all means go out and have fun!! |
