Date: 6/17/2003 5:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 21867
Okay...bear in mind this answer is coming from a reasonably mature 31 year old male...so I'm well past the 'drooling over anything remotely female in a skirt' stage, though unfortunately some men NEVER move out of that stage.: Being alluring/attractive is more to do with that persons 'presence' than what they are wearing. Its how that lady carries herself...the 'essence' she portrays/has...which really has very little to do with what she is wearing, for essentially that is all internal. A woman can be sexy in old jeans and faded top...a woman can be a turn-off in flashy or revealing clothing and 'done up to the nines'...it depends on THEM, the person they are. If a lady is already 'attractive', then dressing nice and wearing make-up etc merely enhances her own beauty. If not, well, sorry...but she'll simply be slightly attractive on the surface...and that only lasts for the briefest moment until their true self is seen. Personally...I'm not a big fan of lots of make-up...if she wishes to wear makeup, then perhaps just enough to bring out her own beauty...highlight it...compliment it. Makeup should merely enhance, not compensate for a lack of. As for clothing...well...it doesn't matter what my lady wears, I see her for who SHE is...and she would still look beautiful to me even if I had my eyes closed. Peace, |