Hey USM. I just thought I would write here and vent for a few minutes. Well as some of you know, my husband and I have been going thru a rough time here lately with this "baby" issue (see my post http://www.unsolvedmysteries.com/usm342452.html) but I thought we were working things out but obviously not. I found out last week that he's been trying to get in touch with the girl when we agreed that if he was going to do this, he would tell me first and we would do it together. Anyway, I found out that he's been trying to see her behind my back and I got upset naturally. Well Friday night we had a blow out and Saturday morning when I woke up, he was gone. I figured he went out for a while to blow off some steam and he would be back later. Well it's now Monday night and I haven't heard not ONE word from him since. I have called hospitals, jails, and his parents. He's not at any of these places so I guess the only thing left is to face that he's gone. I feel so stupid!!! I didn't even see it coming until now, but now that I look back, all the signs were there. Things had been pretty rocky for a while now, but I just thought things would work out. Right now I'm so angry with myself for being this blind. That and I'm mad that he's supposed to be a man and talk to me but he walked out on me like a chicken!!!! Now I don't know what to do anymore. I feel so lost. Even right now writing this I read back and it sounds so stupid. All weekend long I have worried that something happened to him, but by now, I guess it's safe to say he's gone. Now I feel dumb for worrying, and yet, even now that I've said that, I'm still worrying in the back of my mind. He didn't take any of his things so obviously this was not planned, but what else am I supposed to think? Thanks for listening and hope this makes sense.
p.s. I'm sorry for dumping this on you guys but I don't even have a best friend to talk to anymore.....uggggg. You can join Unsolved Mysteries and post your own mysteries or
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it was heartbreaking for me. it was my 17th birthday, so i remember it well. i remember what my mom went through when he left for days. she would call everywhere and we would go looking for him. i know exactally how you feel. and my heart goes out to you. i hope everything works out for you, and don't feel stupid! you did nothing wrong. my mother thought the same thing. all the signs were there, but she still called hospitals, police etc. it's a natural instinct. i wish you the best ((hugs)) 
