Date: 6/16/2003 4:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 49976
lol..maybe its an insulting Compliment..who knows.
Hugs&Cookies  |
Date: 6/16/2003 4:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 49976
lol..I didn't even see insulting compliment in your post till it refreshed..great minds thing alike I guess.
Hugs&Cookies |
Date: 6/16/2003 4:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 37449
In a way its a bad thing..... You have to stand up and be.. uh.. bad sometimes.. But in other ways Its good.. or its like..a bittersweet compliment   |
Date: 6/16/2003 4:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 48129
Ah, im not too sure...i know i hate it when i have to hear this from my mother too but then again, she's not around me too often when i stand my ground...i think parents are supposed to say confusing things like this...?  |
Date: 6/16/2003 4:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 47699
It was compliment so take it as such. I know you and you're a nice person. She also meant for you to stand up for yourself, though, and not let anyone push you around. She was giving you some good advice, there. You don't look for trouble but you don't take any crap, either. You'll be fine, my friend.  |
Date: 6/16/2003 4:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 46069
at least she didn't call you Igor! (inside joke) .lol .. i would take that as a compliment....  |
Date: 6/16/2003 4:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 56927
Be flattered, but have sceptical edge. Make people know you are wary you may be being insulted. That way you'll ward off any tension.  |
Date: 6/16/2003 5:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 53013
I would take it as a compliment. There aren't to many nice people left in todays society.  |
Date: 6/16/2003 5:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
Franks right....I've gotten the 'your too nice for your own good' speel as well....they say it to be truthful but also as a 'warning' to be heeded....that if you don't learn to say 'no' and such....people will use your niceness against you....  |
Date: 6/16/2003 5:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
being too nice is great... but it really effects you down the road to be taken advantge of  |
Date: 6/16/2003 6:06:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57726
lol but it's so hard standing up for myself. Thanks everyone, maybe I'll give sticking up for myself a try sometime *Hesitates*  |
Date: 6/16/2003 6:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 8278
OMG, people say the exact same thing to me all the time! i have wondered the same thing. i'm like, "should i be insulted?? is being nice bad??" i say kill 'em with kindness. LOL  |
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Date: 6/16/2003 7:40:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57726
lol well it's much easier to be nice than it is to be mean |
Date: 6/16/2003 9:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 61966
I'm clueless to that question because my mom has said the same thing and I'm not sure what to think of it. I agree with you, it is much easier to be nice than to be mean to someone. -BreathingBody  |
