Date: 6/15/2003 3:47:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 55297
Will someone PLEASE answer me? I'm confused!  |
Date: 6/15/2003 3:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
If you like other guys, I you don't love this guy.. Love is not some emotion to just throw around.. it's like a once in a lifetime thing.. break up with him now before you end up hurting him worse.  |
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Date: 6/15/2003 3:54:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 55297
Does anyone care? *sigh* |
Date: 6/15/2003 3:54:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 55297
thank you Rika...  |
Date: 6/15/2003 4:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
just because your boyfriend is a great guy in general doesn't mean he's the perfect guy for you... you are young... ask yourself... do you want to eventually marry your BF... if the answer is no... break it off... it seems you are avoiding him.... if you don't want to be with him(and it sounds like you don't want to be) go your seperate ways romantically... don't keep holding onto him because he will only get more hurt later on when you break it off  |
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Date: 6/15/2003 4:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
love is not a once in a lifetime thing.... love is something you hold dear.. love is a feeling that makes you do crazy things... if just the thought of him doesn't make you happy or smile... if the sight of him doesn't make your eyes light up... your not inlove with him.... i can't say if you were ever inlove with him... you can fall inlove more then once... you can have more then 1 great love of your life(trust me i've had 2-3 of them*L*) |
Date: 6/15/2003 5:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
Well I can't relate as I've only had 1 love and will only have 1 love.. (I'm marrying him next summer..  |
Date: 6/15/2003 5:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 37449
I'd wait a week, to see if these feelings are real. (if the feelings of LOVE dont come back) Then, if your not "feeling it". break it off before he gets more attached.  |
Date: 6/15/2003 5:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 22852
Set him free now because the longer you let him believe you love him the more hurt he will be.  |
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Date: 6/15/2003 5:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
rika it's semi rare for a person to only have 1 love of thier life.... it's also somewhat rare for young people to be engaged... it's great you found your 1 special someone... but it don't happen that often |
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Date: 6/15/2003 5:45:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 55297
thank you, but now, how do i end it? |
Date: 6/15/2003 6:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 35825
Everybody here pretty much said it all...don't lead the guy on, just put an end to it before it gets worse. Sit him down and tell him how you feel, the best thing to do is be honest with him and let him know your TRUE feelings, no matter how much it hurts. It'll be better than letting him think you feel the same way about him as he does about you. Do this face to face, it'll be better for both of you. Good Luck!! Love Always,  |
Date: 6/15/2003 6:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 49037
You're young, it sounds like you don't love your boyfriend, and that you really like this other guy. There's no reason to stay with someone you're not sure about, no matter how young or old you are. don't live your life wondering what could of happened. Do what makes you the happiest.  |
Date: 6/15/2003 7:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 36757
aw i'm sorry to hear heaven. yeah, like everyone else said. to break it off? i'm not sure. lol. haven't been there yet. sorry, but i hope things turn out good for ya!  |
Date: 6/15/2003 10:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 21912
Yeah been there many times. After 4 years i actually put an end, cause i just kept liking other guys. So if u're having doubts about loving the guy chances are, he's not the one and you're obviously still young and have so many years to go and see the rest of the world...ok the boys, hehe....but you'll know what's out there and stop wondering how it could work out with this other guy. Look at it this way, if it's meant to be you'll be back with him, if not and it was a mistake, i'm sure you'll learn from it and it won't mess up ur life. So just end it right now and be totally straight, like even tell him that you like someone else as well because trust me he'll eventually find out and it'll hurt a lot more. SO just don't lead him on, don't even take a break, (trust me most of the time they don't work) and explain to him that this guy isnt better than him, just better for you. Someone you could be happier with and you're sure someone else out there will be even more compatible than you....try that and also talk to him face to face, it's a lot more personal. I mean unless he's violent than do that on the phone but i'm sure he's not so...  |
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Date: 6/16/2003 12:22:00 AM
From Authorid: 53052
you end it like any other relationship...tell him face to face... |
Date: 6/16/2003 2:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 48279
You dont love him and you need to end it like now cause the longer you wait, the harder it'll be, and the harder he'll fall. Now, you love him, but you do care about him. And you dont want to hurt him too bad do you? Tell him gently, and now cause it'll hurt more later. ~Hereisanameforyou  |
Date: 6/17/2003 10:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 56489
Just tell him you don't love him in the manner he loves you, you'd just rather stay friends.  |
