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why MY baby? i just need to vent :(

  Author:  8278  Category:(General Advice) Created:(6/13/2003 9:59:00 PM)
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gosh, i don't know where to begin. it has been a very rough week for me. it started a few days ago when i took my son to the doctors. he had a cold and he has a major problem with bed wetting. he is 8 years old and i figured he would out grow that by now. anyway, the doctor got very concerned because, as some of you may know, my son has a heart murmur. they tried to do MRI's, but he is immune to sedation. anyway, the doctor is worried because it sound as if it has progressed. she wants him to see his cardiologist again because she is convinced he has a coertation (not sure on the spelling there. it means a kink in an artery) so we get to go there on the 24th. anyway, she did all this bloodwork on him and the bloodwork came back fine...but the urine test didn't. she said he is showing alot of protien in his urine and thinks he may now have a problem with his kidneys. so now i have to take him to childrens hospital for testing on that. she tells me not to worry too much right now. wait until all the testing is done and we'll see what we can do for him. how can i not worry? it seems like anything that can go wrong, will with him. i keep asking myself why does everything have to happen to my child? monte seems so calm about everything. i don't know if i worry more because i am a very worried mother to begin with or if he just needs to be the strong one. i am just worried sick about all this. and i am so afraid to have more kids because i am terrified they will have the same problems my son has. i just don't understand why my child has to have all of these problems. it just seems like everything comes at once. i took him to the doctors for a cold and he ends up needing to see two specialists. why MY baby? i am sorry for going on about this. i just needed to vent and everyone i talk to says "don't worry until the tests are done"...but deep down i can't help but worry. thanks so much for the friendly ears.

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Date: 6/13/2003 10:04:00 PM  From Authorid: 48689    OMG~ that is SO SO SO sad. I will pray for you and your son and your family! Let me know what happens!  
Date: 6/13/2003 10:06:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 8278    i will jennaluv. thank you so much. God knows i welcome any and all prayers. thanks again  
Date: 6/13/2003 10:08:00 PM  From Authorid: 53900    I know how you feel when I was pregnant I had a routine test come back with problems and I had to have an amnio done it took three weeks for the result son that then when he was about 18 monhts old he got a lump under his arm which they thought was cat scratch fever but it turned out it was not and he had to have it biopsied they never did find out what cause it some type of localized infection they told me then he had an ear infection for almost 6 months straight where no antibiotics would help which caused damage to his hearing. I was worried non stop during that time period. It hurts so much to not be able to protect our children from pain. I understand that feeling I wanted to be able to take any pain he was going through and endure it all myself. I will pray for your son to come through this ok. Maybe it will turn out to just be an infection in his kidney. Try not to worry though cause he does need his mom and dad to be strong for him and you dont need to make yourself sick(((HUGS)))  
Date: 6/13/2003 10:12:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 8278    thank you jessica. i never let him see me worry. i told him they just want to check it out and see whats going on. i never make it sound scary. i am strong around him, but then i feel like falling apart. i think it is the waiting and not knowing that drives me crazy. thanks again.  
Date: 6/13/2003 10:17:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    I'm so sorry! You both will be in my prayers!  
Date: 6/13/2003 10:20:00 PM  From Authorid: 49091    OMG! I am sooooo sorry!! I know your worried sick, but think what would of happened if these problems(if any) weren't caught ahead of time? I will definetly pray for him!!!  
Date: 6/13/2003 10:36:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 8278    thank you so much moon girl and bubbles. it really means alot to me. and i have often thought about how bad it would be if these things weren't caught at an early age. i told monte tonight that i get depressed sometimes when i see a couple who has a very well behaved, very healthy child. i just think "why us??" it just get's so frustrating. thanks again everyone  
Date: 6/13/2003 11:06:00 PM  From Authorid: 19586    I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers... Protein in his urine may mean he is diabetic. When it is diagnosed as a juvenile a lot of times it gets controlled with diet....  
Date: 6/13/2003 11:11:00 PM  From Authorid: 11054    My goodness... I know that must be very rough on you. I'm sorry for all of this having to happen to you specially all at once... It's natural to worry about your child. It's natural to worry about anyone close to you... Think posative about everything... If you worry too much it may cause problems for your body because of the stress just relax at night take a nice long bath and listen to calming music that's what I did when my pretty much second mom went into a coma for a week. She had to have a liver transplant and had she not gotten it the day she did she would have died they almost unplugged her from Life support because she was so close to being gone but she is well now and almost back to normal you have to have hope... The song that helped me a lot of "Impossible" It's by a country singer if you look under my posts the lyrics are there and that's what always raised my hope. Please feel free to send me a message if you ever need someone to talk to. I'm a great listener and after being through something along this line I know there is always a need for someone to talk to. Hugs and Love Best Wishes....  
Date: 6/13/2003 11:23:00 PM  From Authorid: 53558    I am so sorry to read this, Cage, your baby and you are in my thoughts and paryers. May God be with you both. Great big hugs. Take care.  
Date: 6/13/2003 11:40:00 PM  From Authorid: 3998    i am praying for your son and you as well. GOD BLESS many many hugs and prayers  
Date: 6/14/2003 4:54:00 AM  From Authorid: 22852    Wrapping a Blanket of warmth, love and prayers around you and your son. I do not understand why our little ones have to suffer and it breaks hearts my heart to know yours is. I will keep you both in my deepest prayers.  
Date: 6/14/2003 7:43:00 AM  From Authorid: 49976    I hope your baby gets well..i'm sending thoughts and prayers.
Hugs&Cookies
  
Date: 6/14/2003 8:25:00 AM  From Authorid: 33925    Awww Cage honey..I know its hard not to worry about everything..I know..Its your baby and its easy for them to say not to worry..but hon..I am not telling you not to worry, but try to keep a positive outlook..for him ok? *hugs* to you my sweet friend..I will keep you and your son in my thoughts and prayers.  
Date: 6/14/2003 8:42:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 8278    thank you very much everyone. it really means so much to us. i appreciate all the kind and hopeful words. thanks again. ((hugs to all))  
Date: 6/14/2003 11:51:00 AM  From Authorid: 38374    I will deffinately pray for you. I have a strong feeling that your baby will be fine. Just be strong.  
Date: 6/14/2003 3:40:00 PM  From Authorid: 45273    oh my gosh, I am going to pray for you and your son. *weirdgurl*
  
Date: 6/14/2003 3:50:00 PM  From Authorid: 44321    Twin dear,I will keep you and your son in my thoughts and prayers..keep positive no matter how much you don't feel it..I know exactly how you feel ((CAGE))  
Date: 6/14/2003 4:08:00 PM  From Authorid: 28946    I'll be keeping you and your son in my thoughts and prayers. I also will pray for you to have the extra courage and strength you will need to face these new obstacles. God Bless.  
Date: 6/15/2003 11:41:00 AM  From Authorid: 48279    I hate when people tell me not to worry when all they're doing is telling you bad things you need to worry about. I cant tell you not to worry cause thats basically imposible! You're in my prayers. My moms a minister, God will listen to her ! hehehe just kidding, but we'll keep you in our prayers. Tell me about it when you get those test.~Hereisanameforyou  
Date: 6/15/2003 3:33:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 8278    thank you so much everyone. we really appreciate it. i am trying to stay positive, but it is so hard. i will definitly let you all know how he does after the tests. thanks again. (((hugs to all)))  

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