Date: 6/12/2003 1:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 60018
Ditch the friend, she shouldn't be doing that to you, especially after you've told her to lay off. Unless he's given you some kind of reason to worry about him, don't. If you see him flirting back then maybe confront him about it but he seems like he's pretty honest.  |
Date: 6/12/2003 1:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 37449
Dont Worry hunn!!.. I Have a friend who flrits with everyone and she has a bf. Aynway.. I we talked to her about it and she stopped. But It sounds like you have a GREAT guy on your hands. What I would do, is say.. : Listen im scared that I;m gonna lose you to her, but I can trust you, so I'm not gonna worry about it  .. Tell him that, make SURE he knows that he has your trust. THEN i'd go to the witchy friend.. lol.. and say " Listen, hes mine, yu arent gonna get him. He loves me.. and you still wanna be friends, id love that. But, just stop doing that.. its really bugging me. And leave.. muahahahha .. MSG me if you wanna talk or something.  |
Date: 6/12/2003 1:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 13636
First off....you need new friends. with Friends like her, who needs enemies. Take it from one who knows - the hardest step is the first one....you'll do much better without her. And as for your boyfriend, just sit down and talk to him. tell him he's not allowed to say anything until you're done, but offer him the same respect. Don't yell, just discuss. It's hard I know. But when you're done, you'll be much better off. And if it turns out he's cheating on you (which seems to be what you are thinking), drop him. You're still young! Don't let it hold you back!  |
Date: 6/12/2003 3:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 48989
dont come at him like that, it may lead 2 him just gettin fed up of being accused or what not. instead, realize that ur friend isnt a true friend at all, no real friend would try 2 do that 2 another.  |
Date: 6/12/2003 4:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
Wow, what a friend! *rolls eyes* I really don't know what to say.. I hope things work out!  |
Date: 6/12/2003 7:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 21912
Well she doesn't seem like a real friend to me, maybe try telling her that if she was a real friend she'd back off because she should know how much you care for him. Really let him know how much you care and that ur friends flirting is just affecting the relationship...i'm trying i really don't know, i have never been in that situation  |
Date: 6/12/2003 11:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 55988
Maybe you should try to start spending more time with him and less time with your friend. She shouldn't be doing that anyway, I know I wouldn't want my best friend hurting me like that, and she sure wouldn't be my best friend anymore. Maybe you and your boyfriend should talk about it and get things completely cleared up, you'll be much happier afterwards. ~Alicia  |
Date: 6/12/2003 11:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 55988
Oh yeah.. and the only ones in your relationship that matter are him and you. Don't let anyone else affect what you two have. If you trust him then what is there to worry about, right?  ~Alicia |
Date: 6/13/2003 2:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 62184
I would say get rid of the friend, but that's not always a good idea. She still knows him and she's still going to be all over him whether she's friends with you or not. If you do end the friendship, she may try even harder to get to him. Ask your boyfriend if he would tell her to stop. There's not a whole lot you can do. ~EndlessDreamer~  |
41127 Category:(General Advice) Created:(6/12/2003 1:13:00 PM)