Date: 6/11/2003 3:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 44321
I say listen to your feelings,you know yourself and what will really make you happy. Now if it were me ,at age 15 I would break things off and enjoy being me again!  |
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Date: 6/11/2003 3:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 44321
At the age of 15 I was not in a relationship,saw my best friend in one and knew I did not want that yet,they were like a married couple. |
Date: 6/11/2003 4:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 53284
You don't sound to happy. If your not happy now, it's not going to get any better. Perhaps you don't need a BF right now.  |
Date: 6/11/2003 4:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 11054
Hey I know you don't know me and I'm not sure what you will think of my advice but hun I've been there before and it's really hard... what I did was took some time went for a walk and sorted all of my feelings out by the time I had thought long and hard for a couple hours I wrote poetry during it to put my emotions on paper about him my friends my family and such it's a hard decision no one can make it for you and don't let them... people will try but hold strong for it's your life you are leading not theirs. Often in relationship that last that long people do get attatched not so much to the person because many times they know it should come to an end they aren't happy but what stops them is it's normal and yes whether you feel there are sparks left or not you will hurt when you see him around... But if that is something you feel will pass with time or are willing to try and see if it will pass in time then put everything in a row priorities are what to look for and what you need and want... if you need anyone to talk to feel free to message me. Love and Hugs....  |
Date: 6/11/2003 6:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 5349
Im 15 and Ive been with my boyfriend for 8.5 months. We are quite commited and I think you should give it a try, its very nice, very cozy, and very stuff. Yes, commitment is good, as well as secure. Life is good.  |
Date: 6/11/2003 6:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 57579
I know how you feel. I've had boyfriends like that. What you two should do is sit down and make a scedeual(sp?) sort of. Like secdueal(sp?) times apart that you want to be with friends away from each other. It sounds like you two need some space. Good Luck!  |
Date: 6/11/2003 8:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 21912
I think you should take their advice, i know this is an old saying but mothers are right...i didn't believe mine was about mine but she was. My mom and friends saw what i didn't see. So you're young & and u don't want to commit anyways, so i say go on ur own. Think the relationship as experience, like live and learn. And i thought of breaking up with my bf as if it's a wrong decision, i'll learn from it but i doubt if it was a mistake, it wouldn't screw my life up. But i also agree with misty on you twos having space...try that first maybe and then if all fails then break up  |
Date: 6/12/2003 1:39:00 AM
From Authorid: 48279
One mistake girls make is staying in a relationship they feel obligated to stay in. If your feel obligated to stay in it, and your not in it cause you want to, then ditch it. Get out of it now, and dont worry about hurting him or whatever. He's gonna get hurt either way ... so I would have to say break up with him .. that doesnt sound like a healthy relationship to me. ~Hereisanameforyou  |
59241 Category:(General Advice) Created:(6/11/2003 3:47:00 PM)