Date: 6/11/2003 4:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 11054
All you can do is talk to her... she has to show that to her self maybe she doesn't feel pretty I've gone through that before... It's most likely just a phase ... Talk to her and tell her how you feel about what she is saying... I personally think everyone with a beautiful personality is beautiful that's how I explained it to a friend of mine along with many other talks... It seems to me like a phase but that was in my situation I'm not too sure of yours nor do I know the details but my only suggestion is talk to her that's about all you can do... Hope everything turns out good. If you need anyone to talk to feel free to message me. Hugs and Love  |
Date: 6/11/2003 4:47:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
Thanx so much Butterfly kiss. Yeah i've been talking to her and all. I hope it gets better! XOXO **Sarah**  |
Date: 6/11/2003 5:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 54968
I think she's just fishing for compliments. She wants other people to say she's pretty also. Maybe, like Buttafly Kiss said, it's just a phase and will pass on.  |
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Date: 6/11/2003 5:43:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
I hope so Sporti!! FEW!!! |
Date: 6/11/2003 6:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 5349
I have a "nice body" too but none of my friends care, I say you smack her.  |
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Date: 6/11/2003 6:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 5349
no offense. |
Date: 6/11/2003 6:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 57579
I think that most people have these feelings. I know I think some of my friends are better than me. And it's true. Some things they are but I know that I'm better at some things than them. I think you should point out the better things in her. tell her. Also tell her how you feel about this. Not pour your heart out just tell her a little I know I've had to do this. Good Luck *Laura*  |
Date: 6/11/2003 7:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 31048
I have a friend JUST like that! At first it didn't really bother me when she talked about "how much better than her" I was but now it's getting out of hand...one of our friends has a pool so we always go swimming over there, but she spends all day comparing her body to mine and complaining that she's so fat--when she's not. She'll snap at me for having such clear skin when her's is all pimply--which it's not. I seriously don't remember ever seeing her with a face full of pimples...I think she makes half of this crap up! She's always talking about her problems and trying to make me believe that I can't possibly have as many problems as her since I'm "too perfect." She's an odd girl. Anyways, I think people like this just have a really low self-esteem...either that or they're just fishing for compliments like Sportiangel said.   |
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Date: 6/11/2003 8:56:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
Thanx guys!! I dunno wats up with her! Shes driving me bonkers tho!!! Trying to get attetion?? I dunno anymore! I am like STEPHANIE!! ERR |
Date: 6/12/2003 1:35:00 AM
From Authorid: 48279
Hey Bubbles! Well, all I can tell you is that you need to figure out if she says this for attention cause i have a friend that does, or if she actually truly thinks she is ugly. If she does it for attention, ignore her ... she'll quit. If she truly believe her, you need to show her that she isnt! She may not see it because your biggest judge is yourself, and she may be judging herself to hard. Like comparing herself to people like Cindy Crawford and stuff. Tell her all the time that she is pretty (i mean, dont over do it or anything) but sometimes whats fun is giving her a make over, like do her hair and her make up and let her borrow some clothes or go shopping with her and pick out stuff with her. She'll have a blast and feel better about herself!!! And you'll have fun too! ~Hereisanameforyou  |
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Date: 6/12/2003 11:50:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
Aww that sounds like a LOT of fun!!! I'll definetly look into that!! Thanx so much here!! I don't know if I should ignore it or believe her. I know I complain about mnyself always, but I can definetly can say I am VERY hard on my self. I have to have my hair perfect or I spend all day on it, or my make up has to be perfect without any smuges, and my body, OMGOSH! I obsess about my body sooo much! I am turning into a perfectionest. My goals are hard goals to do but i am knocking them down one by one. And yes, like i said, i am VERY hard on myself. If I start to ache while excercising I push myself harder. I push myself a lot. But I like to think of it as a acomplishment and that I shoukd move on to harder things. Knock em down one by one. but as for steph, she isn't hard on her seldf at all. I'll definetly have to take her out some time. We went to the mall not to long ago and had a blast! |
